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On me n this guy's first date, we went all the way to 3rd base... and thenw e went out for like a week or 2 longer and then broke up.. rumors flew around the school which caused the break up.. now he and I merely talk.. but consider each other as friends still... I think i still like him.. but I don't think he likes me... how can I change his perspective of the relationship.. and why do I still like him? Thanks ahead of time!
ok..because you went all the way to third base only on the first date, this guy probably thinks of you as easy. and im sure the rumors say your slutty or whatever and he doesnt want to be with you because of that. when you let guys do that to you, when its only your first date, they use you. and thats exactly what he did. you shoud have a ltitle more respect for youself....im sorry but thats just slutty..
If u are trying to hint to your bf that u want him to kiss u, what are some good types of flirting to use to get the message across. I've tried things but they don't seem to work. Once I was heart broken becuz he pulled away when I was flirty. I'm so lost.
when your sitting next to him or standing infront of him...wrap ur arms around his waste or something and just look at him in the eyes and at his lips and back up at his eyes..it will give him the hint!!
okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do?
how long did you two go out for? well anyways, dont waste your feelings on him. he CHEATED on you. thats just fucked up. now thats using you. if this new guy u feel is just using you...let him go!! you dont need either one of these guys. stay away from your ex. let him come back to you. if he misses u like you miss him--he should be the one trying to get you back..cuz he cheated on you. just wait it out..youll find a new, better guy. you dont need a guy to make you happy.
hey every1. right now my life is so totally like the movie The Notebook, if you've seen it. K so there is this guy who goes to my school and a lot of people don't really like him at all because he is sort of full of himself and annoying. but for some reason at the beginning of this year i really really liked him. i only told a few of my friends though, because it was really embarrassing. then i found out that half way through the year he had to move to Hong Kong. i was really sad and his last day at school , my friend told him that i like him. he said that he liked me too.anyway overtime i kind of got over him and started to like this guy named Ben. Ben has been like my best guy friend for a really long time. anyway he asked me out and i said yes. i was so happy, until Jamie (the guy who moved to Hong Kong) CAME BACK!!! anyway now he is being really sweet, and trying to get me to like him again. the thing is, Ben sometimes ditches me for computer games and stuff, but Jamie never does, hes really sweet now. i don't know what to do at all though because Jamie is moving back to HK for good over the summer, so i probably wont see him again. so i could either break up with ben and spend the remainder of my time going out w/ jamie, or i could stay with ben since i will never see jamie again. no clue what to do! help!
omg that does sound like the notebook!! haha...i dont think you should leave the guy your with now just because he ditches you for comp. games. you don't find many good guys out there..so if he treats you...like really TREATS you good..and with respect..then dont leave him. but if hes just hott and you just like him and dont really know him that well...tell him you need to take a break. and hangout with jamie..the thing is with jamie..ull never see him again..summer is coming up...and its just gonna make his move to HK even harder on both of you guys. and you even said he was embarassing. so if your truly happy with ben..dont leave him...becuse it wil be pointless and youll miss him when jamie is gone..
there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!
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what a whore! HE choses her over you ..his own gf...to sit with at lunch?! you need to get your man in check and talk to him girl!! just be like...ok why don't you yell at courtney for talking shit about me and giving me dirty looks? are you just going to take her side? or just ask him whats up and why is he being like this..ask him if he likes her...but do it alone and in person..and dont be angry. just calmly tlel him you need to know because if he likes her then its over! because it kind of sounds to me that he likes her. and if he keeps it up...go hangout with the guys while hes with her..give him a taste of his own medicene..but that will jsut cause more probs. talk to him first..and see whats up..and tell her to stay the hell out of your relationships!
Well i really like this guy (mason) but of course he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me ALOT and is always hangn around with me, but then this girl seyd "She wants you to break up with yur g/f so yuu can go out with her" AND I NEVR SEYD THAT .. im so mad, he wont talk to me anymore! =[ **-- I rate 5s --**
heey...ok i was in the same situation b4...do you have a class with mason? maybe you can write him a letter--it wont be talking to him and he can re read it and think about it..and he wont blow you off because hes reading a letter..newho...say something like i know you mad at me and everything but i just wanted to let you know that i dont want you and your girlfriend to break up. yea i do like you but you have a girlfriend and i cant do nothing about that..and im okay with that...so i atleast want to be your friend, and want you to know i neevr said nething about breaking you and your girlfriend up" something like that. if hes still mad..sorry but theres nothing else you could really do..maybe get the girl to admit that you didnt say that..i dont know. just give it time. theyll break up eventually then maybe hell come around. itll all work out sooner or later
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Ok well i've been talking to this boy for a year and almost 2months.. We've been on and of with the best days and worst.. But through out it all I love him to death.. and i would do anything for him. But he lies/cheats but then again he loves me and is always their for me. And this other boy i went out with in the summer wants me to go to prom which i am going.. I still like him but i love the other boy.. And the one i've been talking to for over a year says you know if you get back with him were over.. and the other one thinks im going to leave him again because i did before... Who should i go for?! I mean their both their for me but the first one i've been threw everything with and he always tells me he loves me and he is sorry for everything.. But i dont want to hurt the other one..
ok i totally know how you feel with that guy that lies/cheats. but you have to think about this...if he did love you-why would he cheat and lie and hurt you? i know he says sorry and that he loves you and that just makes it all the more harder to realize that he isnt going to change. trust me i was with my ex for 8 months..he lied/cheated..on me so many times. and i always took him back..and he ended up doing it again over and over again. its time you try something new. if he did love you as much as he says he does..then you two wont be over for good. if i was you id go to prom with the other guy. just give him a chance!! you cant let the guy that cheats on you and lies to you hold you back. just say i know your not gonna like this but i decided to go to prom with (his name). and if he says you two are over then just say something like "oh what i go to prom with another AND admit to you that im going with him, but you can cheat on me and lie to me behind my back and i still am with you and forgive you??" i mean your telling him the truth, so its not cheating or hiding nothing. if things with you and the new guy dont work out. dont go back to the cheater/lier guy..make him come to you. it might take a little while, but if its meant to be and he loves you so much and cant live without you...then HE will come back to YOU. its time you stop forgiving him and taking him back-make him want you back for once....everything happens for a reason
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My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago at school. Right after school that same day i saw him kissing another girl. I know we broke up and everything but how did he get over it that fast? My question is how can i get over someone quickly? Any tips on how to forget about someone?
depends how long you guys went out. if it wasnt that long like a week or whatever...maybe he had feelings for the other girl all along and just dumped you now so he could be with her. but if you guys were close and liked eachother alot...he could be using this girl..like to get over you.he figures now hes single and this girl probably means nothing to him. he didnt get over you that fast. and to forget about him-do the same thing hes doing. talk to other guys, go have a night out with your girls and enjoy the single life!! lol sorry im single right now after 9 months...and im loving it :) ...so just listen to break up songs..music always gets me through tough stuff...im sry that he did that-guys are asses
What's the best way to ask your parents if you can go out on a date- I'm not talking about "boyfriends" that you have in like 7th grade, I mean HS bfs .. and how to tell your parents that you have a bf without feeling-weird and uncomfortable! Thanks
hey well does your bf call your house alot? start talking about him ALOT..be like so theres this really hott guy at mi school. and he really likes me and i really like him. and weve been talking alot. then maybe a week later be like hey mom guess what!! so and so asked me to be his girlfriend...and just say it the most innocent way you can. and do it slowly. just gradually start talking about him being your friend. then a little later..tell her whats up...
I like my friend, hes so fun to be around & I think at one point he used to like me too, you know how you can just tell? Besides, i used to nag him about who he liked and at that point, he would say that he was shy and such, and that he didn't want to ruin anything if he said something. Anyways, after a while, i started to like him and it was obvious hehe. I told him I like him and wells he told me to call him back when I had a chance to talk about it, when I did, he ignored the subject and wells i thought something was there but i guess at that point there wasnt. Anyways, nowadays, it seems like he likes me again, doing the same things when he might have liked me, but on and off..and i think i still have feelings for him..should I ask him about it?
maybe you should just ask him to hangout..maybe when you straight up told him you liked him it scared him off...just call him and see if he wants to hangout or something. or you could always ask him who he likes now days...and if he says "no one, who do you like?" just be like oh theres this one guy..but last time i told him i liked him...he ignored it..or something playful like that!!....just flirt alot..and if he flirts back eventually hell make a move!!
I moved into a new city last summer, and there's this guy that lives 3 houses down that goes to my school. He always looks at me when we see eachother during school, and even stared at me when i walked into one of his classes. I want to talk to him and i think he may want to too, but he has a girlfriend. We pass eachother everyday after a class and i dont know how to approach him. Next time i see him walk by, what should i say/ask to get a conversation started? What are some other things i could do to show that im interested besides smile?
hey it sounds like he wants to get to know you. even if he has a girlfriend-go for it! maybe he doesnt want to approach YOU first because he has a girlfriend. or he might be too shy/scared? but what you should do...just make TOTAL eye contact. or you can just be like hey...do you know what time it is? or something like that. or you can bump into him and be oh sorry or something! just think of any excuse to talk to hmi. and in your neighborhood go take your dog for a walk and keep passing his house. or watch out your window and if hes outside go walk your dog or ride your bike and just talk to him!! if you guys end up getting together, it would work out GREAT..i mean he goes to your school AND lives 3 houses away..ur s0o lucky...
tomorrow is the talent show at my school and i want to sit next to the kid i like, how can i go about doing this? if it helps, my 2 friends are helping me. ones a girl and ones a guy.
just ask him!!! jsut be like hey wanna sit by me?? if he says no...stop waisting your time on him...if he says yes then great!!..if your too scared to do that have your guy friend ask him to sit by him...and then you sit on the other side...next to the kid you like
okay well my boyfriend is a football star and im really afraid of losing him because he's really popular and i feel like he's gonna find someone else. he tells me he loves me but i dont know im kinda scared. and also all he does is talk about football sometimes, and it annoys me.
that just shows you have REALLY low confidence. dont ever let your bf see you like this. you have to be as confident as you can..guys dont want a girl who thinks less of herself or something. also, just because hes popular doesnt mean he doesnt love you. my boyfriend is popular at school too and TONS of girls like me and sometimes i wonder im like...ok why did he pick me? that girl is waaay prettier...but you know, its not all about looks. you are probablly really pretty, and you must have a great personality. or you two just get along. he has reasons for wanting you over everyone else. jsut be happy your his girlfriend
I met this guy 6 months ago and we like eachother. He lives about... 500 miles away from me but.. whatever. Anyway im going up to see him in about 2 weeks. I just dont know if I want to go because ill go up there we will cuddle, kiss blah blah blah and then I will go and for another two months he will be with other people.. I REALLY like this kid, he makes me like amazingly happy.. What can I do to make myself feel better and just learn that hes not all mine?
just enjoy the time you have with him. try to see him as much as possible and take lots of pix with him so youll remember him!! and ask him to keep in touch with you -aim, phone...something!! but i know what you mean...its hard to know that he probably flirts with other girls up there. but you know that your speciail to him and hes probably looking forward to seeing you. but you guys live so far away that you cant hold him back from seeing other people. so i think that you should just enjoy the time you guys CAN be togteher and make it as fun as possible!! :)
hi i just recently discovered some suspicious actions coming from my boyfriend. on myspace in his inbox i discovered a lot of letters that he wrote to girls saying stuff like, "wow, you're beautiful". or "i could spend all night gazing in your eyes."
i started crying cuz in a way i think he's cheating on me in a sense by flirting with other girls. i confronted him about it, and he denies all of it saying that he was just bored and on myspace a lot of people ask to rate their picture. i still didn't believe him cuz his answer was unreasonable, and he kept telling me things like he specified that he was in a relationship (which is true) and he was just bored and i shouldn't take it personally. even some of the girls he commented on had boyfriends so he said i was overreacting. he also said that if he were to be cheating on me, why is he not going out to act upon his actions?
right now i really don't know whether to believe him or not.
i never talk to guys let alone look at them because i keep my boyfriend's feelings into consideration. what i told him was that if he was allowed to talk to girls (he talks to guys also, he's outgoing like that), then i should be allowed the same priveliges without having to feel guilty about it. do you think i made the right decision on telling him that?
i really don't know what to think. there's more to this story and i apologize if i made him seem like the evil antagonist here, but we've been together a log time and he's never cheated on me...i want to believe him, i really do. but why would he call other girls beautiful? why the word "beautiful" of all words?
any help is appreciated...
hey i had the same problem with my ex. turns out he was cheating on me! not to say yours is or anything. we were together for 6 months and inside i always had a feeling like he was cheating on me. go with your gut reaction. and if you trust your bf alot then just tell him "how would you like it if i talked to guys and told them that stuff" and see what he says. tell him you dont mind if he has GURL friends...but your his girlfriend. and he should think you, and only you are beautiful. just tell him its not cool and if hes cheating on you, u just want to know right now or something. do what you feel inside. if u feel hes cheating on you, you feel that way for a reason.
how do u do everything on xanga i give 5's!!!!!!!!
hey you have to use html codes. go to www.blogring.net and get the codes... click Xanga Scripts and Themes or something..theres alot of links and when you get the code you want..copy n paste it into your Look and Feel in your xanga
i cannot stand my life anymore. i am 13 and NEVER had a boyfriend. my friend is 12 and has had 7 boyfriends and hooked up with 2. i feel like if i stay so lonely then i will seriously die of a broken heart. i watch my friend hook up with her boyfriend and wonder why wont anyone do that to me? why? im pretty, im sweet, im nice, im flirty. why the fuck am i single and prude? i tried to get my so called 'friend' to find me a boyfriend. she told me 'find your own goddamn boyfriend' i cant stand this. she wants a guy, she gets him, why cant she help a poor innocent girl who will die of loneliness find a boyfriend to love and who loves her? please help what can i do to get a boyfriend and not be so lonely and depressed? thanks sooooo much
hey chick i totally know how you feel. i was in the same exact thing when i was 13. all mi friends had boyfriends and i didnt see why i didnt have one. i just now had mi first serious relationship and im 15. just go out, and dont be scared to go up to a guy. you have to take chances. go to the mall and if you see a cute guy just go up to him & start talking. guys love when girls are confident. and if you go up to a guy, thats definatly confidence. just think "whats the worst that can happen" but anyways, your time will come. if you go LOOK for a boyfriend, you wont find one. itll just happen. and dont ask your friends to find one for you. you have to do it yourself!! jsut go out and be confident. youll get noticed...good luck :)
well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her?
stop being shy just take a chance
Ok, Recently i told this boy lets call him kyle i like him and i really have major feelings for him and he told me he has serious feelings for me we keep writing to eachother and flirting but i have a boyfriend... lets call him justin and kyle and justin sit at the same table at lunch and usually justin walks me to gym and he forgot about me and i forgot about him and is that a sign to break up with justin and go out with kyle? please help me i know this is confusing but i really need help! i'll rate high!
go out with kyle....if your having second thoughts about ur boyfriend just dump him...and besides its not fair to either of them to be flirting with both...and obviously you dont know if your bf is still into you or anything...or u wouldnt be asking this question. i think you should dump him and go out with kyle...and if things dont workout with you and kyle...if you and justin were meant to be..youll get back togther or something
this is going to be very long. I'm in love with this guy and i have been for about 8 months i would say. We have been having sex for a year now and he just thought of me as u kno-a sex friend. I'm the only one he's been having it with since we started bein together but ive had past partners,one was his really close friend,and now i've quit for him. He got me pregnate. Yes, im 2 1/2 months pregnate with his baby. And i love him. I know evry day girls say "oh i love him soo much" But this is for real. I've lied 4 him. been through court 4 him, fought girls 4 him, and gave up my boyfriend 4 him. Whenever i tell him how i feel he says "I care about u too but i`m just not ready to go out with you...i do love you and i do wanna be with you...I just can't.." or he uses diff. excuses how 'i went wit his friend he can't do that to him' WELL Y NOT?! I try avoiding him..you know, trying to make him miss me and come crawling back to me.. but that's hard to do when he's the cutest most popular guy in school with girls practically lined up. He doesn't need me. I need advice..what should i do? i know i can't make him love me back..but maybe just to have him want to be with me and understand how i feel a little more. Don't say love notes-cuz i tried...or phone calls..or long talks..i tried everything. Don't call me dumb..please!!! i`m just hopelessly in love.... =( help!
plz dont erase this!!! i rate mainly 5's!
he doesnt want to go out with you because hes not ready to settle down and become a dad...just avoid him for a little bit and when your like 6-7 months preg. or showing....just say...hey...you know OUR baby is going to be born soon....and weve been thru so much....are you atleast going to be a dad to it???? and just let him have his fun or w/e till the baby is ready 2 come out and then its serious and he needs to settle down and be with you....and tell him u didnt just climb on top of yourself and be pregnant...he did it too...i mean he needs to father it....