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13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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Just because her parents don't know about you doesn't mean that you can't go to the movies together. You can go in a group. I don't really know what else to say because I don't know why she won't tell her parents. I don't think you should dump her but I think you should talk to her and ask her why she won't tell her parents. Maybe she won't tell them because she is nervous to go out on like a 'date' w/ you. I'm sure there is some reason.
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ii went to a summer camp and met this guy... to keep a long story short, all we did was flirt and spend every min. with each other... we even kissed... ii really liked him... he gave me his number and it turns out he has a girlfriend... to him was it just a fling? please help ! btw im 14/f.... (link)
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Sorry to say this but yea. Basically, it was a fling and he also cheated on his gf. That happens sometimes at camp because you don't go to the same school.
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well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better?? (link)
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Tell him that you are just not interested and the fact that he keeps asking you out isn't going to make you like him anymore. Just tell him nicely that if he keeps bothering you like that it will make you like him even less! :)
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do guys think its unnatrictive when your hip bones like stick out and they're a little wider than the rest of your body? xoxo (link)
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Most girls hips ARE wider than the rest of their body once they have hit puberty!
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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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Just tell him how you feel!
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13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her? (link)
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Most kids make-out around 13 or 14. You will know when to kiss her. It just happens when the time is right. But first you have to actually ask her out. Try asking her out on AIM or the phone so you don't have to talk to her directly, it might make it a little easier. If you want to ask her out in person but you are still nervous, try finding out if she likes you back and if she does it will make things a lot easier because you will be confident that she will say yes! :)
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is it like totally wrong to talk to guys on the internet that you dont know? 'cuz my mom doesnt let me talk to anyone i dont know! and know i'm falling for this guy! what do i do? i wanna keep talking to him!! And my mom would kill me if she found out!
what do i do? i'm so confused! (link)
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This guy that you don't know could really be like a 50 year old man trying to trick you into thinking he's a teenager. Scary but true- u can't trust anyone you meet on the internet because you don't know who they really are!
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Ok so I kissed this guy last night. I like him and he I think he likes me. People have told me we look cute together and they think he likes me too. I was really nervous but I did it, it was great blah blah blah. The thing is, he would much rather make-out. He was my first kiss, and I don't know if I'm ready to make-out. I've always been scared to, and I'm not sure why. I think it's because I don't exactly know step by step how to do it, and I'm scared I won't be good and i'll do something horribly wrong. I don't want to just not do it cuz im not ready. I wanna be ready and go for it, but those fears keep coming back to me. Is there anything I can do about this? This guy is way more advanced than I am but we still like each other to some extent. Any advice? (link)
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A lot of girls get nervous. It really isn't that big of a deal. Just go for it. If the guy really likes you, he won't care how you kiss.
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i like these two guys they r awesome but now i have to choose and i dont kno what to do. one lives in the same city i do and the other one lives 1 hour away. they are both super sweet to me and i can talk to both of them about anything. i dont kno what to do im so confused. please help me with my love triangle oh yes and they both like me wich makes it even harder because no matter what im going to break someones heart and im not good with that. please help me. (link)
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It would be better to pick the one that lives close to you because you prob. don't see the other one as much. Also, if you didn't pick him, I am asssuming he goes to the same school as you, you will have to see him every day. But, you really have to follow your heart.
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omgsh ok this summer there have been 2 guys that i reallly like...so wenever i am like alone with them they lean in for a kiss ..and omg i want to kiss them soo bad but almost everytime i become so shy about it and ill find sum exuse to either not do it (im just not feeling well) or ill be liek "i have to go to the bathroom". but i really want to kiss them! i dont have problems like wen we play spin the bottle or truth or dare , bc wen we play i just go for it and im not shy at all. but its just like wen we r alone ..or if its with sumone i really like i just get all shy. wat is my problem?!? lol xoxo
brooke* (link)
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You're probably just nervous and it's normal. But you should'nt be, because obviously these guys like you or they wouldn't be trying to kiss you.
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ok I like this boy who is a year older than me...where neighboors and i really like him!! sometimes when my bff comes over we play soccer with him and his friend..how can I tell if he likes me? And should I ask him out? plaese help (link)
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If he likes you he will probably flirt w/ u a lot, but some boys get shy around the girl they like so that is not always true. Also, if he purposely lets you steal the ball from him playing soccer or lets you win. Have your friend ask him if he likes you or tell him that you like him.
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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird? (link)
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cute
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there is this guy...he calls me at least twice a day and he always flirts with me says my friends but everytime some1 goes up to him and askes if he likes me he says no...i dont really understand him...i like him a lot and i dont know if i should tell him or if i sould just keep it to myself because im afraid he will be scared off if i tell him...i could use help
i rate high...thanx (link)
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Either this guy really does like you, or he really likes you as a friend. He might be saying that he doesn't like you because he is afraid that it might scare you off!! Or he is just embarrassed to admit it! You should tell him how you feel because maybe he likes u bak!
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I like this guy and he likes me, but we both are too shy to ask each other out. I have decided to make the move-how can I ask him out? When should I? What do I say! (link)
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This sounds sorta like something that happened to me. But I didn't know the guy liked me- so it was just him who was too shy to ask me out even though he knew I liked him. We never went out though. But anywayz..... sorry.... back to your problem. I think that you should call him on the phone, that way, since you are shy, you won't have to ask him out to his face!!
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There is this guy that really likes me. He flirts with me all the time and he won't leave me alone. He gives me flowers, candies, and notes. I hate it!! He says he is going to give me a really good gift 4 valentines day. HELP!!! I think he is going to ask me out!! (link)
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Okay. First, you need to tell him gently that you are not interested. Tell him he needs to give you some space and tell him that you like him only as a friend. Tell him that by bothering you like this, he is only making you like him less.
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ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you. A lot of my friends and me haven't been on a real date. It just means that you haven't found the right guy yet. Don't act deperate. Although having a boyfriend seems really important right now, later your boyfriend will probably be to you,just some guy you dated in highschool. Try to interact more with guys and learn about their personalities. Maybe you will find the guy of your dreams.
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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks (link)
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I think you should send the money. Every little bit counts. Your money could help rebuild a part of a building or something!
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i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does? (link)
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Tell her that you do like her, but if she keeps asking you out and then dumping you a few days later, your relationship has no point.
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This guy is like in love with me and he always sends me all these poems and qoutes on how much but im wit a guy t hat i already love and he rele gets sick of this other guy telling em how much he loves me..how can i get this guy to leave me alone i mean ii wanan still be friends with im but..i dont want him to love me anymore..
Love,
WAnt HiM To mOVe On (link)
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Tell him you already hav a bf and that you are just not interested in him right now. Tell him that you just want to be friends. If you really don't want him to like you make sure you NEVER flirt with him.
Good Luck!
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whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?! (link)
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He likes you!!! or he just feels bad when you flirt with other guys and not him.
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