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I'm 14 i love giving advice and recving advice ,i'm new to this site but i think i got the hang of it , i love people asking me questions so start asking =)

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well when you say right down topics like wqhat topics did ytou talk about?

like things that happen durning the day like how you thought about them or how you missed them and want to hang out soon or just ask questions that bring you into topics like friends gossip things you like talking about normally we talk about type of music or how far would you go with me or which movie i want to see



hope i helped

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how can i get a guy who used to go out with a popular girl and who is just friends with me go out with me?
i am 15, a girl, from america, and speak english.

does he know that you like him first of all because that might help and just be yourself



i hope i helped -Brianna=)

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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.

Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.

Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute

Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.

Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.

Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.

Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.

Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????

Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.

Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.

Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.

ok this is where i get confused.

Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.

Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?

Thanks signed
really confused

you should just ask him lol that confused me to i think you guys are but you should make sure

i hope i helped =) Brianna

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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me!

they are just trying to be good parents and look out for you put yourself in their shoes would you let your 15 year old daughter hang out with a 19 year old boy who had crimail offenses if yes then your probably not going to be the best parent in the world but maybe you should move on and find someone else different who can make you feel the same way but is maybe your age and doesn't have lot od criminall ofeenses


i hope i helped =) Brianna

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In the movies do you talk fake a yawn and put your hand over the girl's shoulder hold her hand? Kiss her? i dont no what to do or when to do it..

well this is my advice i think the fake vawn is really chessey so if i were you i would just grab her hand and start rubbing it and then look her in the eyes if she looks back then kiss her if she doesn't try again until she does but you don't have to kiss just hold her hand and watch the movie

i hope i helped =) Brianna

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I can usually keep my cool but get shy hence my name but like i've kissed girls but i've never made out liek french kiss. How do you actually french kiss do you just put you tongue in the other persons mouth? On dates what topics do people usually talk about? and when you call a girl and talk for hours what do you talk about there also like ive talked for a long time but it was random stuff not anything like a topic...

well about the kissing you could practice on your hand how you think it would be like than just do that on the girl and everyone kisses different so there is no right and wrong way on dates just talk about anything that comes to mind but try to be romantic and no chesey lines lol and and what i used to do when i wanted to talk on the phone for hours with this person i would write things down durning the day about what i want to ask or talk about and then when i call or they call i take out a peice of paper lol silly huh? but anyways

i hope i helped =) Brianna

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so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months and i love kissing him. and i always want to. we havent done it that much though. and its because i am a nervous wreck every time. he was my first kiss and weve never really made out or anything and he knows that im nervous and that he was my first and he knows i think i have no idea what im doing and he trys to make me feel better about it but i still cant help it. i want to make out with him but i dont know how to or how to get over the nervous thing. please dont say just go for it cuz i wish i could lol. any help you can give would be GREAT!!

lmao i once was in this situation well this may sound stupid but there's this movie called bluemoon or something like that its a country movie but anyways they practice making out with their hands idk if that works but some of my friedns do that to funny huh lol but i geuss it works or you could always just let him lead do what he does


i hope i helped =) Brianna

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13/m
Ok so, I have this problem were I might fall in love with someone very easy, and when this happens I get rejected/ heartbroken like 99% of the time. Can anyone pleas help?

ok well look at the bright side your not going to marry any of these girls and dont get so hung up over one girl i mean your only 13 flirt and have fun and don't get hurt

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So i was dating this guy and we were getting pretty serious and I was completley head over heels in love with him, and he claimed he was too. EVerything was perfect. Than out of no where tonight he dumps me because he wants to date around and doesn't want to be in a relationship. What do i do?? Is he lying? i Need advice ahhhh

two words forget him he seems like a player and just wants everyone so if i were you i would move on

hope i helped -Brianna

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I have been with my b/f for about a yr and a half now. We have definitely had our ups and downs. Last year i was at a friends house and one of my b/f's good friends showed up. He asked if i wanted to hang out. Went to his house and he put the moves on me. I refused to have sexual contact with him. Even though i had the urge to. He told me that he was sorry and that he couldnt help but wonder why i was with this other guy and that he thought i was pretty.

Ever since that time, he always makes comments to my b/f about how my b/f doesnt treat me right. Or he will joke around about how im his type. We live in a tight-knit town where everyone knows everyone. I see this guy everyday and he always smiles or stares and then looks away.

My major problem is that im finding more and more that im not in-love with my bf anymore as he has become physically violent.

My sister-in-law thinks that i should leave my bf and go with this guy. I am quite tempted as he and i have so much in common and he knows how to treat a lady. I also have a medical condition where i cannot have children. And this guy has full custody of his little girl. Every time i see him with her i melt because he is such a good father.

Am i wrong for wanting to try and have a relationship with this other guy?
And do you think he would be interested in trying to have a relationship?

Well this is a very tough questio .... first of you need to dumep the boyfriend because obviously he's abusing you and you deseve beter than that and the fact that you dont like him that much anymore for those reasons second off i wouldn't jump from guy to guy if you get what i'm saying i mean listen to how bad this sounds o yeah that one girl dumped her b/f and went out with his best friend like really quick ... sorry...but you dont want to have that reputation and about the bestfriend??? he has a kid???? are you confortable with thhat???? anyways what i think you should do is dump the b/f and gett closer to his bestfriend


i hoped i helped -Brianna

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Me and this guy name Marcus likes each other a lot and like we talk all the time and were really close but we live like 1 hour and a half away from each other and he said he thinks we will never date because of the distance and I dont know what to say or do now.. and like i'm really upset and i told him i was but he said theres nothing he can do.. what do i do?

move on sweetie there are more than one fishin the sea and if he doesn't wantot do anything you shouldn't have to either =)


i hoped i helped

Brianna

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Fourteen;Female

Okay there are these two boys they're best friends. Or atleast thats what Matt thinks but Jeff really hates Matt. Anyway I like Jeff all last summer he was sweet and alll this stuff and he liked me but nothing could happen becasue my best friend Maria liked him. So them I liked Matt who is SUPER HOTT funny cute nice but only sometimes. Other times he pissy and concided. Now its the end of the year. And my friend Sarah likes Jeff alot, but I think im starting to like him. Jeff always says he lves me and stuff and we always talk about Matt and how big of a dick he is and im so confused. So I want to know, if you were me what would you do?

well first of all how close are you with this friend? and the rule goes chicks before dicks but sometimes we have to bend the rules=) lol but i think matt would be a no no he all ready sounds likea jerk and you should talk to jeff about this whole situation tell him you like him and want to be with him but your bestfriend likes him so you really can't do anything thing except for be friends and if i were you i would back off the guy because i would rather have friends then a boyfriend =) i hoped i helped, Brianna

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14 will be 15 in 6 days/f

ok so my best friend(who is 15) for 8 years was dating this guy named Fred(not his real name,just turned 18) and they dated for about 3 months when he cheated on her and she dumped him but me and fred kept talking on the phone (since i live 3 hours away from my bestfriend and fred) and fred was about to move a lot closer to me. So we started talking about hooking up (since we both have problems with cheating)and trying to have an open relationship. Which sounds bad but i am the type of girl that doesn't ever get jelous and understands that everyone messes up. You can call me a whore if you want. we have a lot in common and we seem perfect for each other. but resently i found out that my best friend still likes him so i backed off and let her have him until he moved. and then he finally told me that he didn't like her anymore and asked me not to tell her that so i didn't until it kinda slipped out. and he wasn't mad at me cause he was moving the next day. and so everybody was ok but my bestfriend who is now claiming that he is her first true love but my bestfriend has a clinging problem with guys and this is like the fiftyth guy she has said is her first true love plus since i told her he didn't really like her she has started "talking" to this guy chris which was something fred doesn't know. Now this is where the real problem comes in. so me and fred decided to keep our plans and try dating. So he said he was going to come all the way to where i live and stay the weekend at a cabin his family owns and asked me to come hang out with him during the days. I said yes and then called my bestfriend to tell her about out plans. i said hi and instead of saying hi back she said your not f***ing going and i'm gonna kick your ass if you do because i still love him which pissed me off because i know she doesn't and i know she is and has been "talking" to chris. So now we are not talking. I want to make up with her but i really want to be with fred not only because we have the same views on almost everything but because he makes me happy and i've been really depressed lately. And my best friend always does this. If she even thinks that me and one of her ex's are going to start dating she starts telling me if i date them then our friendship is over. So i have always gave into her and told the guy no but i getting tired of it and like i said i really want to be with him. So my question is should i date him and lose her or should i give into her again and leave him alone. And there is no inbetween with her.

signed
i really don't know what to do

well i'm not having in good friends these days and all my friends seem to be guys so i tihnk maybe you guys might want to be friends with benifits so you can still be happy but stilll have a friend ask yourself would you rather have a friend or a boyfriend ? i think that would relly help you out there... but if you really have big emotion for this guy and go out but then you guys end up breking up then you lost a friend ship for nothing but the rule of friendship says chicks before dicks but sometimes you have o bend the rules but no one can make this decesion up for you this has to come from what you think will happen in the future =) i'm sorry for this situation i know how it feels ihope i helped,Brianna

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hi...
i like this guy a lot,(he says he has a gf but i dont believe because he says she is 15) but he is like 1 of my BFF and i already have a bf and i cant stand him right now. The guy i like has been so nice to me this year and we have so many good times, but my bf is sweet to me to but i dont feel a click. Please Help Me 13/f!

HeartBroken

well it seems like you like your guy friend more then your boyfriend so i advise you to break up with your boyfriend before you break his heart then actually ask around and see if he has a girlfriend and if he does then back off but if he doesn;t then why would he lie to you like that?

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16/f

I never let guys get close romantically to me, because I'm scared they will try something sexual. Now, its not that I'm morally opposed, but I think I'm just self conscious or something, because I'm scared to let a guy touch me. Like I'm afraid I'll be bad at whatever we do, or they won't like how I look or feel or whatever. I have dumped all of my boyfriends after like a month because I just don't want them to get too close. Well the thing is, I really like this guy now, but I don't want to pull away from him because I'm worried about things. So 2 things. 1-what can I do about this? and 2- Do guys mind doing things with a first timer?

ok i used to be like this don't worry....well 1- you can relax and let him make the moves and you just go with the flow or you could tell him how you feel and he'll know how you feel 2- and guys don't mind doing it with a first timer and think about it if they do care then there not worth doing it with

i hop i helped
Brianna

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when me and my boyfriend are on the phone we can never think of anything to talk about. can anyone give me some things that would start a conversation with me and him? thank you ill rate and comment

WEll what i used to do might be a little silly but i use to write things down durning the day that i would like to talk about or ask him then when he called i would grab that peice of people and start going down the list lol silly huh lol

hope that helped ,Brianna

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I cheated on my boyfriend, Trey about a week ago. I am absolutley in love with him but we got into a huge argument and he said some really mean things so I went off and hooked up with this one kid that he totally HATES just to make him mad. Well, he didn't end up finding out and the night before last he called me and apologized and sent me a totally sweet email, and so I felt like I had to tell him the truth so I did and he started crying and then I started crying and I felt soooo bad.
the email said..
"You know that feeling you get when you’re about to do something like go on a big roller coaster and you’re scared out of your mind because its so high up but yet you still can’t wait? Or when you’re on an airplane and you’re going to see someone you haven’t seen in a really long time and you’re about to land and you absolutely can’t wait and you’re so happy and you feel like you could just fly, like if you fell out of the airplane right then it wouldn’t matter because you could do anything… that’s how I feel when I talk to you. Its like, nothing bad could ever happen as long as I’m talking to you and even though we fight constantly I’d rather be arguing with you then doing anything with anyone else. I’m so sorry for what I said and I’d be lost without you." yeah so basically i'm in love with him and I feel like shit for making him upset. He said he forgave me and that he loves me no matter what and I believe him but I still feel absolutley terrible for it and I want to find some way to make it up to him. Does anybody have any ideas???

You can make it up to him by never doing it again you dont want to be materialistic and give him stuff just tell him that you love him and you'll never do it again =)

-I hope that helped good luck =)

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tonight, my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch king kong with him. we`ve been together for about 2 months now, and we`ve done everything up to making out. the last time we did, he bit my tongue and it bled. but, that was his first time making out, so i just shook it off. but tonight, i think we will again. so my main problem is, what are some good ways to make out for beginners?

lol this is a different ? but the answer is weird ok just try to teach him how you make out and go with the flow what evre you do don't go to fast and don't go to slow lol i'm sorry i hoped that helped

Brianna

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my friend and i lke the same guy and, she used to go out w/ him, and she still lkes him. He picked her over me at the beginning of the year, and i really need advice on wat i should do.

13/f

ask yourself if you rather have a friend or a boyfriend but there are more guys out there and if i were you i would pick your friend because it's chick before dicks lol =)

-I hope that helped good luck =)

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14/f...i've always been REALLY shy around anyone who isn't one of my best friends. especially around guys. even if i don't have a crush on the guy and even if i'm friends with the guy i still get nervous and i'm really shy. so i have a hard time meeting guys. im not like boyfriend obsessed or anything but i've never had a boyfriend and i'll be going into 9th grade next year. i'm just saying that it would be nice to have a boyfriend. i know i'm not fat at all i'm 5'3" and i weigh around 105 (i don't know for sure since i haven't weighed myself in a while) i just have a problem with my face. i have braces and REALLY bad teeth. like i'm actually missing a tooth (it never grew in after i lost the baby tooth and there is no tooth to grow in) and one of my teeth is like disfigured and is a peg tooth. once i get my braces off (which is in July!!!) i'm going to get surgery done and they will put in a fake tooth and fix up the peg tooth. i also have very oily skin and break out often. i'm doing what i can to help my skin and i use acne products..i'm just not that patient. so i could use some help with my confidence. what are some things to do to help boost my confidence level? because i know that guys like girls who are confident.

also i get really stagefright and i can't talk in front of the class. i blush easily too.

i'll rate 5's for anyone who tries!

well .... i was shy too but then you have t releize you need to be yourself if your shy then thats part of you and you want a boyfriend who likes you for you and i heard for alot of people that guys like the shy girls so thats a good thing and about your apperance like i said you want a guy that's going to date you for you not you looks

-good luck with that =)

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