there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
14/m
You can keep telling yourself your over her, but you wont be until you stop thinking about her. Tell her how you feel. Dont push it in her face that you beat up the guy for her so now its her turn though, because that will only push her away further. It might be easier not to be her friend at all. You cant be friends with someone you have feelings for. its going to be hard but take it one step at a time.
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my girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and we feel we are ready to make out. i need some tips to making out. im 14 and shes 13. when and where can we make out?
Please help me i need advice ans soon.
Theres no certain time to make out with your girlfriend. It will just happen and it doesnt matter where. Like I said it just happens you cant have a certain time or place.
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heyy my name is cate and im 13 and i liek this kid named shaun and hes 13. He likes me too so we both liek each other. Well the last time i went out with him in 7th grade we didnt talk much cuz we were both shy. Then i had to go to cheerleading practice one night while there was a dance. He went to the dance and ended up making out with one of my best friends. We are all still friends though soo.. Anyways i liek him again and i wanna go out with him but i dont kow if i trust him enough. Recently i wen tot eh football game and met up with him there. We walked around around and we held hands and he pu his arm around me and it was really sweet. I wanna go out with him but how do i know he wont cheat on me again or just wanan go out with me to make out. He really nice and super hott. What should i do?
Xoxo
CatieZ
It doesnt matter how nice or hot he is, once a cheater always a cheater. I had to learn that the hard way, and now im stuck in pain. He might be sweet, but if you cheated on you once, theres a big chance that he'll do it again, you can find someone who you will be able to trust and still nice and hot at the same time, dont waste your time on someone you can not trust.
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ok well i really really really like this guy and i dont know if he likes me. i would love if you could give me some advice. ok well im really shy around guys i mean i have been rejected before and im not that kind of girl who will go up to a guy and be like hey want to go out sometime and that will just be like your really hot. i mean we kinda sorta talk on the bus and in between classes but were not bff's and so i really want to know what he thinks of me without having a friend tell and im scared im going to rejected again and i dont want that to happen ps im 13 and i also wont be like hey can i get your # type of thing i just really like him and i want him to like me i mean i flirt with him but i dunno i think hes shy too i dunno if he has an sn becuase i havent asked but im going to ask on monday so dont tell me to do that. anything will help just please help me!
Just keep conversating with him, try to get closer, but dont look to into him because it will chase him away. While your talking to him bring up the subject of his phone number. Maybe one day you can plan for you and your friends to go the movies, and you can ask him if he wants to go or even ask one of your friends to ask him and his friends to go. Maybe sit next to him at the movies, and just get close. I hope I helped...
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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!
I'll rate honestly.
Your deff not dumb, everyone goes through it at some part of time. If you like the person, then say yes, yes doesnt mean your going to get married it means you feel the same as the person, and you want to start a real reltionship. Yes does sound kind of funny now that I think of it, but it shows the person that you dont play games. I hope I helped...
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okay, so i like a guy and i think he likes me back. the only problem is that there's this girl at my school who's his ex-girlfriend and they've been though a lot, and also just recently broken up. the girl isn't really my friend, but sort of a "friend of a friend". so i don't know whether to keep liking the guy, or to forget about it because he might be "off-limits". i'm really confused, please help!
[i give 5's for good answers, thanks]
by the way, i'm in junior high.
I think you should give it a chance, but don't get to attached because if they been through alot he might want her back. I understand how it feels, and not know if hes off limits or not, but they must of broke up for a reason. Start talking to him, dont let the ex come between you and his relationship.
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welll this is kind-of like, comfusing.
Last night i went on a hayride with about 11 friends.. and my friend A brought her boyfriend.. and he brought a friend with him.. and he looked lonely so me and my friend D were always going over to talk to him.. and then they kept telling me to give him a hug but i kinda shyed away because i just met him.. so D gave him a hug and he looked at me while he was hugging her and then on the actual ride (that was all standing in line) i sat on the end and D was next to me, him next to her, and a girl next to him, and we gave him some of the blanket we brought.. and then we switched so i was sitting next to him and when i was scared D dared me to hide my face on his shoulder so i did and he smiled down at me and stuff and then he wouldnt laugh so I made him laugh by making a joke about something and stuff. and then while me and D were waiting to get picked up she was like "I think he liked you because in line he kept looking at you with the 'Oh she's cute' look. And he smiled at you when you dug her face into his shoulder."
what do you think?
I think he likes you. He was just to shy to say anything. Get his number, maybe chill with him. If you feel a connection you should deff go for it. Yo0u never know, he could be the one you always looked for, but you will never know if you dont try.
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i have alot of stress right now and i feel like im going to lose my mind. what should i do to keep myself sane fora while until things calm down?
What I usually do when I get stressed is write poetry. It doesnt have to rhyme, just write whatever your feeling and it relieves you. You can also talk to friends, sometimes my friends cheer me up. Just try not to thinka bout the stress, its only going to get you more stressed, which is not good at all. reading can also help. Sometimes I read love stories and its gets my mind away from everyone for a while.
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okay well i was going to ask this boy out on the computer...i RLY like him and ppl say he rly likes me and it looks like it because all he does is flirt with me and only me but when i ask someone to ask him if he likes me...he'll say no! the other day i asked my friend chelsey at my other friends party to tell him he should go out with me and he said no!!! and then on the computer a few weeks ago chelsey asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said he didnt know...now is he just doing this because he doesnt want to admit that he'll like me? i rly like him and EVERYONE says he likes me and some of his friends even told me he said he liked me but why is he doing this if he does!? should i just ask him out and get on with my life if he doesnt!? please help...ill rate 5's for any advice unless its mean
Dont send your friends up to him, even one of your friends. That deff makes boys nervous and mad. Just be truthful to him. Tell him to be honest with you. before you ask him out, talk to him either on the phone or in person, tell him you like him, and ask him if he feels the same way. If he doesnt then dont waste your time. even if he does like you and hes shy, hes playing to many baby games and you dont want to be with him anyway, if he does, ask him out or hint him to ask you out. JUst be straight with him before its to late.
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Hi, Me and my girlfriend where together for 2 and a half years we broke up and couple days later she went out with a guy she works with. She said they only went out 2 times. Well we got back together things seemed cool. Then i got a funny feeling like something was wrong. She was "talking" and only "kissed" the guy but things were still going on she admitted it and said it was over with them. Well she has been deleting her cell phone history daily. She admitted to me today that they talk on the cell phone but she claims nothing is going on! Do you think she is still cheating? Also do you think it's right for her to go and talk to the guy after all that has happened! She tells me there is nothing between them now and they only talk on the phone! She tells me what's wrong with them being friends.
Obviously shes confused. She still wants to be with him, and wants to be with you. Break it off with her. You can find so much better. I can tell you really like/love her, but she obviously doesnt care about your feelings. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and the whole time I was being played, he did the same thingg, and I ended up with nothingg but a broken heart at the end. Just tell her that your not going to be with someone you cant trust, or who doesnt wanna be with you. trust me, you dont need anyone whos going to play games with your heart. hhope i helped...
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is it normal to not like it when other girls are around the guy you like???
Of course its normal. Its hard watching the boy you like flirt with someone else, but it will be easier if you told him how you feel instead of getting mad at every person you see him with, try it out. tell him how you feel and maybe he feels the same when he sees you with guys.
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ok theres this boy who is my friend and we've been friends for a while and i found out that for a little while he liked me, like a few weeks. Now he doesnt and he likes this girl, alot, and they're going out and she doesnt like him at all. shes only going out with him for a joke. I wanna tell him but I don't because then her friend might start shit with me. Also the more I think about it the more I begin to think I like him. What should I do, tell him in a way without really telling him about this girl or not and have him find out I knew and hate me??????
I'll rate high for good answers!!!
btw im f
Since use are friends it would be right to tell him about the girl. If he doesnt believe you then hes not that good of a friend. But you should also tell him how you feel. about him. If you keep it inside then you will never know what could of happened between you too. Just be honest with him, about both subjects.
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Okay i like this guy who is in one of my classes and i like him alot but i dont know what to say to him since i am shy around guys i like!!!please help (i rate high)
It will be easier if you knew him. If you do know him just start conversation, then maybe you can add if you can have his number so use can hang one day. While use are hanging, bring up the subject of you liking him, maybe he'll feel the same way about you. Just take it slow.
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ok so i know you gyes hate these qustions but i cant answer it on my own. ok so i still like my x but he has a girl friend.shes really mean and dose not want us to be friends.so today she went home sick and my x DID NOT seem to care. So today he huged me and flrted with me. He also spraed his favorite colnge on me which smelled really good!! I dont know if i should ask him if he still likes me or just let narure take its corse?? I really need help on this one i want to know if he still likes me??
i rate 5s
Ask him honestly whats going on. If hes just doing that because shes not in school and he has no one to flirt with then theres no use on wastin your time, but if he still has feelings for you and you feel the same then go for it. Dont let her ruin your friendship or your relationship with ur ex. If hes just playing games with both of use, then he doesnt deserve you and im sure you can find someone better.
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Okay well, I like this Boy named jonathan. But I am afraid to ask him out. What if he says no or somthing . Well the most basic thing is that I am really shy and dont know what to say to them. umm. like what I say I have his phone number or I can talk to him at school but what should i say to him??? Please help if you give me a good answer then I will give you a rating so if you want your rating to go up you can answer this seriously and I will for sure give you a five is if it's good advice
The first thing you should do is build a friendship, if you already have a friendship find out if he likes you. Guys like when girls make the first move, it shows them there not afraid. Even if you want to, just ask him how he feels about you, and tell him to be honest. If he feels the same about you then everythings good, but if he doesnt youll still have a friendship, and its better to be friends because maybe youll have a chance in the future. Just take it slow.
I hope I helped alittle, im always here.
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well on monday this guy told my friend that he liked me. i really really like him to. my face lights up and it just makes my day when he calls. sometimes i wait up all night for him to call, but when he does its totally worth it. anyways, tuesday after school i was talking to my friend paul. I told him that I like ryan. Its kind of a secret, but I think ryan already knows. So on the phone yesterday ryan really wanted to know what the secret was. I said to guess. He guessed that i liked him. Well that is the secret, but I was really stupid and said that it wasn't the secret. I really want to tell him because then mabye he will ask me out. I dont know if I should thought because it might make things akward. Do you think it will? should I tell him?
If you really like him, you should tell him how you feel. Since use talk, and he told your friend that he likes you, its the perfect chance. You should stop being shy though, it will only push him away. Tell him how you feel and you already know he feels the same way so you have yourself a date. Good luck I hope I boosted your confidence. im always here...
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my ex boyfriend of over 2 months is talking to another girl but yet he still talks to me when he sees me and talks to me on aim and everything and he toild my friend that we was gettin back 2gether but we dont never get to talk about it becasue everytime we finally talk she calls him...he told me that it would be easier if we went to the same school and im moving to the school that he goes to next semester but i cant go right now like he wants me to because that would be crazy to move in the middle of the first semester ya know...he told all my friends he still likes me but he needs time to think and that he cares about me and likes me alot but its hard so what should i do?
Don't waste your time on someone whos gonna play games. He's with another girl, does not talk to you about how he really feels, tells your friends he still like you, but then again he needs to think. Im sure you can find someone better who wouldnt just think, but do something about it. If he really liked you he would tell you how he really feels and tell the other girl that he still wants to be with you, if he doesnt then he doesnt care about you as much as he says he does, ask him and if he has no answer then you'll know that hes playing kiddie games, and move on to someone whos not afraid of a relationship.
I hopee I helped, if you need anymore help, im here.
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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I need to figure out what to get him. In his myspace he has a picture of a giraffe ( I don't know he's just random like that ) anyways, above it hes like," my birthdyas coming up, get me this " i know he's like joking, but do you think it'd be kinda funny or something if i actually got him it? Haha.. I have no idea. It's my first boyfriend I dunno how to shop for them lol. He also was joking around once and was like," Get me a red mercedes with black interior and booming music " so I was thinking about getting him a little hot rods car. I don't know. Does it sound to cutesy? If it does, can you possible suggest some other ideas? Thank you so much.
p.s. We've been dating for..2 weeks now. And by the time his birthday comes, it'll be 4 weeks and something days. Please help, once again, thank you so much
For jokes you should get him that giraffe thing, and also the car rods. You should also get him something as a regular present like maybe a baseball hat or anything he would like. Since use are in the beginning of your relationship you should have fun, but also show that you care about his birthday or any other special occasions.
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Hey, there's this guy,...let's call him *Gavin*. Well, i dont know *Gavin* that well. but this is what i do know,...he's a football player, he's not real smart, he friends with alot of people and he's nice and funny, and a little retarded sometimes,...and i think he's shy,...but i kind of like *Gavin* but i dont know him that well,...what should i do to get to know him better? or for him to notice me?
*Gavin* might sound like a hard person to get to talk to, but he's probably like any other guy. Don't be to aggresive. See if any of your friends know him, if they do that will help you alot. When they talk to him get in the conversation. Another easy thing is to try to get his s/n, it always works. Whatever you do don't make it seem like your to desperate or it will just run him away. You can be foward and just start talking to him when you see him, or shy and wait for him to notice you, but guys(especially shy guys) like it when a girl comes to them, it shows them the girl knows what she wants. Hopee I was a good help.
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