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i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him so much, like he is everything i dreamed of.. but the other day like one of my best friends *bob* told me that he has liked me since sixth grade, that i am amazing, and he is so jealous of my boyfriend, and how perfect i am and how much i mean to him.. and the thing is i liked *bob* for like 4 years and then i met my boyfriend. i talked to my mom about it.. and she said i shoudl try hanging out with *bob* to see if i like him or w/e so i went to the movies with him last night.. and had SO much fun.. would this be considered cheating ? am i a terrible person for like questioning my love for my bf ? and what do you think is the best way for me to tell my bf about this... ?
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no, its not cheating. it would be cheating if you did something like kissing or something. talk to your boyfriend, and tell him how you feel. if he really loves you, he would understand. it might make him mad though because you have feelings for someone else. it would be alot better if you did tell him because if you didnt, you might consider cheating because it would be a date if your bf didnt know about it. hope i helped!
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There's this kid, Sam* and he was dumped by my best friend, Katie* in February.. Sam is the nicest kid you will ever meet..and Katie I think is just boy crazy. Well anyway, Sam and Katie went out for over 2 years on and off. Sam lives about 2 hours away though. Well this real jerk starting going out with Katie and she doesnt like him and is actually kind of attached to Sam still..but Katie wants him to dump her, because she doesnt have the heart to dump him..so my job is to try to make him break up with her..and its all confusing..but any suggestions?
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well if I was in this situation I would just tell him to brake up with her because of the reason and then if he doesnt do it then have her brake up with him and or do it for her so she doesnt feel bad about it ok! hope i helped!
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Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.
I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it? (link)
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dont worry about it. if she had a problem with it, she would aproach you about it, sice youve known each other for a long time, shell be comfortable talking aobut it. if she doesnt mentione it, dont bring it up, unless shes acting weird, then tell her that you dont like this girl like that. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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Ok i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months now and in the beginning of the realtionship my bestfriend thought we were perfect for eachother... well about 2 weeks ago he fractured his ankle and was really upset about becuz he couldn't play baseball and baseball is his life!! so he got really angry and took it all out on me! well now were both over it and we couldn't be any happier with each other... well the problem is i always told my bestfriend wat was happening and she kept telling me to break up with him and that she doesn't like him... how can i prove to her that my bf and i are perfect for each other and everybody has their fights!? (link)
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you DONT have to explain that. i know shes your best friend, but you have the right to go out with whoeva you want. no explanation required. if she doesnt like him, ask her why. it doesnt matter if she likes him or not, unless its a big problem.what matters is that you do like him for you, not because of what everybody else thinks. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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well im only 13 years old...and ive just recentaly lost my virginty to my boyfriend...and now that i did have sex with him he dosent call me that much or come and see me ....i think he might of just used me ...but im not sure??? what should i do? (link)
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try to talk to him. he might just be nervous around you. give him some time, and he'll come along. if you feel like he's using you, let him go, because obviously he's not worth your time. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
ps- youre only 13?!? why did you do it that soon?
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ok i like this guy at school. he is in my gym class and i always look at him like he is the man of my dreams. he's nice funny cute sweet.anyway i can't seem to get his attention. i see him look at me when i'm looking at himbut i immeditley turn away. i'm shy around him but loud around his best freind. i don't even have the guts to call him. his name is matt and if you know who he is please help me out.when i was in 2nd grade i liked him and i still do now. he invited me over to his house three times in 2nd grade and i even saw a picture of him when he was a baby and when he was naked!
i guess my question is can u please help me to ask him to a dance at the end of the year which is on june 7th. if you know me please don't tell matt that i like him ok
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try to tlk 2 him, even though it might be hard. when you're with his best friend and he's there to, talk to him. include him in your conversation. dont ignore him, because then he wont know youre interested. after you start talking to him more and more, start flirting with him more and more... and what happens happens. then once youve done that, when youre talking to him, bring up the fact about the dance. be like "so who are you going to the dance with?" and since you have gym with him, you can talk to him then if youre too shy to talk to him at luch or sumthing. work yourself in there girl! hope i helped!!!
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ya i can help u. when u tlk 2 him, look @ him in the eye. and laugh at his jokes (just dont sound OBNOXIOUS) and touch him. like on his shoulder and stuff. if u look @ him n u guys r far away from eachother, look @ him, n when he looks @ u, smile and look away. play hard 2 get, but not too hard. well hope i helped u again!
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ok so me and my boyfriend went out for 6 months... and then things started to change. so i broke up with him. then the next day he asked me back out and i said yes. and then after like a week i broke up with him again because it was different then before and i didnt like it. and he keeps calling me when hes in tears and i dont know what to do.. if i went back out with him ide be doin it because i feel bad for him and i dont wanna hurt him. more and more people are telling me "he'll change for you... he'll be different" and its all retarted and i dont wannna go back out with him.
any suggestions on what to do next???
thanks in advance
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if you dont wana go out with him, dont! if you dont like the way hes acting, dont waste ur time with him. tell him that you just want to be friends, and nothin else. if you went out with him just because you feel bad for him, it'll hurt him even more if he finds out. hope i helped!
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hello Ana21, I'd like to ask a question or advice from some one more my age...I am 8months pregnant, at tha time it was a planned pregnancy I had a 2bdrm apt a great job and transportation, I really felt like i was ready but, since then I lost everything, job, apartment,and my car. My boyfriend lost his great job too now we both are super stressed and usually end up arguing with each other or breaking up every other week...i can't work for a while, in the meantime he's job hunting, he needs encouragement from me but i have a hard time with communicating letting him know how i feel or being there for him i am a better listener than a speaker..How can I get over my fear of talking to him I think it's rediculous, we been 2gether for 3yrs and I still can't talk 2 him but I love him more than anything in the world I know if I was a better communicator we would be less stressed HELP I AM 2O ALMOST A MOM NEED YOUR HELP THANKS T IN INDY
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ok well i dont really any experience with pregnancy, but i think i can help you with your communication problem. what you need to do is telling you love him every day. even though sometimes it might be hard. your right. he does need to hear some encouragement, and it would help tons if you did tell him that even though uts hard, you'll make it. try to talk things out. a couple is supposed to be able to talk to each other. hope i helped!
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well theres this girl that i have gone out with before and she broke up with me and now she likes me again but she has brokin my heart more than once should i ask her out?
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give yourself some time. dont try to rush into things just becaouse she wants you to. do what you want, or what feels right. dont wory too much about it. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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ok its a long one. i just moved to this state 2 months ago and everyone is contry as hell i mean gold teeth, 10,000$ rims on a 1976 impala contry i had trouble meeting pepoel that i could relate to. (im from the east coast)Now i have found three man they each have what i am looking for one is a firefighter ,the other works at the radio station but is in school for broadcasting(his dad is a broadcaster at the local station) and the last has a great job he graduated and is making serious money. they all want me. i dont know who to choose the one who graduated takes me to fine restarants and we drink wine and go to the do theater which has always been my dream but he cant kiss to save his life. the firefighter is older has his own home and well older man know how to make a woman feel right opens doors,pays the check, ect. Now the youngest is very outspoken and tells in how it is which is good for me he keeps me grounded and in the real world they all have what im looking for. if i knew who loved me more thats the i would choose so does anyone know away i can test their feelings please let me know. all confused (link)
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which one do you feel more comfortable with. which one you feel happy around, and know that you can get along with just fine. and the one that your family and friends can get along with. hope i helped!
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my boyfriend and me have been together for 6 months...we love eachother alot...and are a really happy couple...but lately i dont know...hes been really weird...all his friends have turned on him and now their telling me hes cheating on me...i dont know if its because their just trying to get back at him and take me away from him or if its true..ive asked him and he promises me that he would never do that and stuff and i seriously cant picture him cheating on me..ever...what do i do?? i dont know who to believe anymore... :( (link)
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talk 2 him. if dat dont work test him. sak a friend of yours that trust to go to him, and hi on him. if he denies it, your good. but if he doesnt ,yure screwd. if he gets mad at you for spying on him, tell him taht the only reason you did that was because when you tried to talk to him about it, he wouldnt talk. hope i helped!
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ok me and my friend well we both have boyfriends and we're best friends and are boyfriends are best friends so we always hang out..well just this weekend cause we started going out on Thursday..but ya but i think i like my best friends boyfriend more than i like mine..and like i like my boyfriend and hes sweet and all but like its just weird cause i like him more..idk like to wait till they break up and then break up with my boyfriend and try to go out with him cause me and my friend already talked about that but i didn't tell her i liked him..idk what to do..
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u should tell her. she'll proly get mad, but she'll get ova it. tell her that you didnt mean for this to happen but it did. then tell this to your boyfriend. for a while it'll seem like everyone hates you, but it'll be beter cuz it wouldnt be fair to your bf if you were going out with him when u didnt like him. hope i helped!
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I'm 16 and in high school. Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up at the beginning of September. I had broken up with him because I wanted to be with someone else. It didn't work between us and I have been single for quite awhile. I really like this guy that I know, but recently me and my ex have been spending alot of time on the phone. I don't like him as a boyfriend anymore cause I like someone else. My ex flirts with me and calls me all the time. I try not to be mean or anything but I don't like him like that anymore. I have a feeling that he might ask me out again. I don't know how to tell him that I like someone else. What should I do? Please help me.
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ask him if he's clear that things are over between the two of you. if he says ok, forger about it, but if hes still tryin to get wit u, tell him to back off. even if it hurts him a lil. he'll get over it hope i helped!
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There is this guy.. lets call him K.. well me and K have known each other and been friends for ever because my mom and his mom were friends since elementary school.. well me and K are like brother and sister but the thing is i really really like him but i dont kno how to show it.This year we have gotten closer than ever. i can tell him anything. any ways hes comming over to my house later and the thing is every time we hang out we go with all these other guys because im not a prep or anything im known as "one of the guys" how do i let him kno that i like him with out every one else finding out (link)
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flirt with him. dont go to him and tell him, because it'll be awkward afterwards. if you flirt with him, you'll be able to see if he likes you or not,and then if he does, you can talk to him about it. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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i broke up with my boyfriend but now i really want to go back out with him. i think he still likes me because he flirts all the time. we've only been broke up for a week and i don't want to sound deperate or foolish. what if he's mad i broke up with him? i tried to talk to him about it but i couldn't because i was so nervous. i couldn't force the words out. what should i do? i really want to try to do it in person but how can i get over my fears and what should i say? i have no clue how to word anything! (link)
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ok. heres the deal. if he's still frirting with you, he's telling you hes still interested,a dn that hes not mad. the only way for him to know that you still like him is for you to tell him, so you gota tlk 2 him. say something like "this was a big mistake, and i still have feelings for you" dats just an idea. say whatever feels right. hope i helped!
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O-k my boyfriend is so cool.... but lately he's been acting differently. as if he wants more from me!! what should I do? (link)
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talk to him about it. maybe he wants something that youre not giving him. dont feel bad. it ill be a lot better for the both of you. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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ok, my friend, lets call her jane is going out with this guy, lets call him joe. i like joe, joe likes me. jane found out but she didnt have a problem with it. i was home sick from school today and even before today, everyone was telling me that joe was going to dump jane for me. if he really does ask me out and all, should i say yes or what because i am so confused and caught in the middle and i feel really bad cuz i think that i'm the cause of them breaking up. help! n thx ahead of time (link)
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i think that it should be ok because she said she was ok with it. maybe b4 u say yes, talk to your friend about it. see how she feels. if she doesnt feel ok with it, try to explain to her that this shouldnt ruin your friendship. if she doesnt want to be your friend because you said yes, she proly wasnt a good friend, bcuz she was too selfish.
hope i helped!
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ok, i like, fell for this guy who reallllly liked me(let's call him "michael"). then we got into a BIG fight, and i didn't like him anymore. we didn't talk for like 2 weeks.Right, right. Then i fell hard for "matt". man, then i told my friend that i liked.. "matt".i think he told him i do, and he said he likes me. the only thing is.. me and "michael" resovled our fight, and i fell for him....AGAIN... and 10 x's harder! typical of me, yes. but now, "matt"'s moving to like south america in a few months, so if i want to go out with him, i have to do it now, or never.. and i'm like in love with michael again. gahh, but.. "matt"'s PERFECT for me. what do you think i should do.. (link)
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dont go out with matt because if you do when he moves you wont be able to get michael back if you like michael that much then go out with him cuz if u go out with matt for the little time hes here you might end up loosing both guys!
hope i helped!!!
~*ana*~
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okay ill start at the beging, a while back my b/f and i got into a fight and he thought i broke up with him even though i didn't so a few years went past and i still had feelings for him and well now one of my best friends just broke up with him and it turns out he likes me too and i dont know what to do cux she still likes him and really wants him back but then again so do i, and im super confused cuz she told me not to go out with him but i really really want to so plz help me thanks (link)
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ask her how she would feel if you went out with him again. he does like you, and you like him too. you should give it a try, because if shes your real friend, she wont stop being your friend just because of a guy. she cant tell you what to do jsut because she wants him, so do what ever you feel is right, and what ever happens happens. hope i helped
~*ana
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in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this... (link)
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flirt back! but dont go all the way. since you like him, flirt back, but if he starts being like" ok lets go have sex" tell him that thats not what youre looking for. tell him how youre feeling, and that youre not interested into having sex yet. tell him, and if he respects you and starts taking things slow, keep hi, but if hes like "you dont wana have sex, so dont talk to me" forget about him because hes no good! hope i helped
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