Hi hi everyone! My name is Alice. That is my real name anyways. Everyone besides my grandparents call me Allie. I'm going to be 15 in March. I live in Philly, PA. I'm a Freshman and I play lacrosse and soccer. I made this site because I love helping people out with things and I will give you the best advice I can think of. My friend suggested I start this site because I give great advice. I will almost never give you a short undetailed answer. Unless it's like a yes or no question that is. Feel free to drop anything in my inbox.
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Location: Philadelphia
Age: 14
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i really need to think of something to get my boyfriend for valentines day
im no good at thinking of things to get him on my own
so any help would be greatly appreciated =] (link)
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here's what i would do, but it's kind of limited.
stick with red stuff for the whole theme of valentine's day. if it's just a plain gift or sometihng.. it might seem a little christmas-y.
but if he likes a certain sports team.. let's say the red sox, you could get him a red fitted hat, or a red jersey.
hope i helped.
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are we kissing right? me and my boyfriend just move eachothers tongues in and out and i make my tongue like a scoop each time. the reason y i dont think its right is because its all we do and i get bored. so we have never made out for over like a minute. he tried flicking his tongue and stuff like that and i just wasnt comfortable with it. maybe because ive never done it? i dont know i just didnt like anything except for the scooping. are we doing it wrong then? (link)
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try this..
after it gets a little boring of what you were doing.. suck on his lower lip for a few seconds and go back to making out.
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my mom made me break up with my boyfriend just recently.I did what was told,but my mom still thinks we are going out.my mom makes me use the phone in the living room or let her listen on the other line.I have no privacy.How do I get more privacy?why is she doing this when I did what I was suppose to? (link)
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She obviously doesn't trust you very much.
If you're good at this type of thing, I say you lie. Tell her you have a new boyfriend. Have like a guy call you all the time (that's your friend) and tell her you're going out with him.
If this doesn't work I think you should talk to her about it and how her how it is from your point of veiw. Yell if you have to because would you rather be grounded or have no privacy at all.
I hope I helped hun.
Allieboo
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does size really matter to girls? (link)
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not really. unless it's really small. like to extremes. but it doesn't matter to me. i think it matters to guys more than girls because i know tons of guys who get made fun of because of being small.
hope i helped.
allieboo
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OK well my friends bf's birthday was like two days ago and she doesn't know what to go him.
He is "gangsta" and she was thinking cologn but she can't find him any.
Does anyone have any good birthday present ideas? (link)
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She could get him a jersey of his favorite bball playa. Or a fitted hat of his favorite team.
Hope I helped!
Allieboo
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Well, I like this kid. I'm a little worried about it though, because I've only kissed one guy... and it wasnt even a REAL kiss and the kid I like makes out with people && grinds at dances and stuff. (Hey, I know he doesnt sound like prince charming, but hes really nice and funny and smart etc)
It's just if I do start going out with him, what do I do? anything is really helpful, from kissing tips to ... well anything really... i just need help
and preferably soon please (link)
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www.virtualkiss.com
Hope this helps.
Allieboo
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here's the thing --- guys just do not look at me as "girlfriend material". i am 14 and most guys just aren't interested in "my type". i am a really big tom-boy and hang out with a lot of guys. i have girl-friends too but we hang with several guys. i really like this one guy in particular. how can i get him to notice me? i am popular, but not the "it girl" i play soccer and basketball and am well-known but i just don't get boyfriends. i go to a small private school (less than 1000 kids pre-k thru 12) so there aren't many choices. the guy i like is one of my friends but how can i get him to see me as more than a friend? what do 14 year old guys like in a girl? i am not desperate at all or anything... i am just ready for a relationship. anything will help! i'll rate 5's! (link)
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14 year old guys like a lot of things in a girl.
But it's easier to anme what they don't like--
Things they don't like in girls to sum it up:
-too much acne
-too much of a change in a little time (no make-up to TONS)
-real short hair
-chapped lips
-tells their parents or whatever everything
-anorexic girls or girls who eat IMMENSE amounts of food
-tattletales/good two shoes/extra brainy
-prudeness-- that's a big one.
HOPE i HELPED.
ALLiEB00
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ok so my boyfriend always asks me what i like about him and why i like him. but come to think of it i can't really put it into works like hes always there for me hes caring.. but i cant put it into words its actually really hard. i know this probably sounds corney but do u have any reasons why u like your bf or whatever just to sum it up? (link)
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I like my boyfriend because he's always there for me, he can tell when somethings wrong, he loves me even though I'm not perfect, he's brutally honest with me, he sees us having a future even though we're young, he tells me EXACTLY what is on his mind, he trusts me enough that he's cried around me and cried BECAUSE of me (=/) annd I just like him for being the best boyfriend I've ever had.
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alright i need to know none of my friends can really sum it up so what are a girlfriends "duites"? I mean it's really starting to get tricky and confusing.
Thanks in advance and I rate 5s! (link)
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Ok, well it depends how long you have been going out:
1 day- 3 months;
-You should approach him more than he approaches you
-You should not call him CONSTANTLY.. wait for him to call you. I read once that it's tacky to call a boy because then you have to keep up the conversation. If you do decide to call him call him no more than once every other day
-Invite him to go places
3 months- 6 months
-Call him, be there for him when he needs someone, go to any of his sports games, competitions, and maybe a few of his practices, keep track of the info you know about him (THE SPECIFICS-- favorite food, song, color, season, whatever he tells you)
6 months +
-It should be pretty easy from then on.
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Well lets start. I am 16 going on 17 my boyfriend is 18 going on 19 and my ex is 17 going on 18. Ok. I used to go with the 17 year old and i really fell for him like really feel for him. I know he loves me too but he just doesn't know how to treat me. When i got fed up w/the way he was treating me i met my boyfriend now i broke with my ex to be with him. We have been together now for 3 months and i really care about him. But the other guy has been trying to get me back since we broke up and i was like no cause he wasn't what i wanted anymore and i started to really fall for my boyfriend, but i never lost my feelings for my ex. Now me and my boyfriend are going through it and we dont talk like at all. I talk to my ex more than i talk to my boyfriend. He is really trying to get me back and i really do love him but i don't know, there is something telling me that shouldn't. I mean i do love but he has put me through so much already. I also care about my boyfriend now but our relationship is not doing so well and i really feel that we should just split up but i really wanna be with him. I dont know what to do. Do i break up with my boyfriend and go back with my ex (who i really am starting to want to be with) or do i break up with my boyfriend and not go back with my ex. Or do i just not break up with my boyfriend at all (which i really don't want to do). Please excuse the lengh. Please help (link)
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My advice for you is to go back to your ex if you want to so bad. It sounds like you are in l-o-v-e. And that does NOT go away. Before you do though keep this is mind--
--Talk to him about treating you right this time and if he really wants you he'll treat you right. Tell him if he treats you bad it's over. Maybe just to scare him a bit.
--Also keep in mind things might be a little weird for awhile. Something kinda like this happened to me and I went back to my ex and at first it was weird but it's all good now.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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Okay. I'm in love with this guy. I always have been. He doesn't know. He never will. I'm moving in less than a month and I am NOT going to tell him. That's not my question. My question is, this love for him is killing me. KILLING me, because I can't do anything (I AM NOT GOING TO TELL HIM, SO DON'T TELL ME TO!). I don't want to stop loving him. I know my feelings are true. But for my own sake, I have to.
How can I?
--thanks. (link)
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I know you said you're not going to tell him-- but let me tell you straight out-- that is one EFFED UP thing to do. You NEED to tell him.
Let me tell you from experience-- you should not continue keeping things in like that. This might sound corny or whatever but you have one life to live-- and it's a short one. Don't waste your time keeping everything in. Especially if it really is that deep.
And no, you don't know if your feelings are true. You can say that all you want and try to beleive it but you're not in love until you have someone who loves you back. I was in "love" with one boy for 7 years and I decided I would never ever love anyone and then finally I let go and met other guys. Now I have a boyfriend who Ive been with for a year or so and I know what love really is.
I don't care-- you can rate me a 1 or whatever but this advice is from my heart, hun, and I really think you should take it.
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me & my boyfriend really like each other a lot. we've been dating for a while now. we've madeout, but we've discussed it & that's as far as we're going to go. usually we'd do that at my house or his. [not the whole time, just occasionally] of course my parents were be home during this, but we never got walked in or anything..until yesterday. my mom didn't get mad. she was just disappointed because she doesn't want me doing that. she says i'm too young [i'm 14 & i'll be 15 in july] & that it can lead to other things. [which we've discussed time & time again & it hasn't & it's not going to] my boyfriend is 15 & will be 16 in may. my mom says when i'm his age, she won't see it as a big deal..but she says i need to wait. to make it even worse, she told my dad, who of course actually was upset over the whole thing. so my boyfriend & i discussed it all & decided we won't makeout anymore because we can live without it. but now i'm worried i won't be able to hang out with him as much because my parents will be all weird about it. even my mom said she can't trust me anymore so she seems to think we'll sneak & just makeout at his house. i don't know what to do. i really don't feel like i was doing anything wrong. i haven't done anything else & i don't want to. should i just stick with the plan i have now & wait until i'm older or is there another way around all of this? if you can help, thanks a bunch. (link)
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There is nothing wrong with making out and maybe you need to tell your mom that. If she's so fine with you having a boyfriend a year older than you or whatever, she should be comfortable with you making out.
If your not comfortable talking to her about it then invite your mom to like watch a movie at your house with you and your boyfriend or something so she can see that's not how you are.
Hope I helped. Allie boo
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Okay. I know this question is getting SO annoying..but I need an answer...and haven't found one that goes to what I need to know.
Alright, so I and this guy have been going out for 3 weeks tomorrow, and on Valentines day it will have been 5 weeks (That assuming I can count. :P ) We're both new to having a boyfriend/girlfriend, so we aren't really lovey dovey or "cute" or anything like that - heck, we don't even hug that much.
I want to get him something for Valentines day, but I don't know what. I don't want to get him anything big, but I also think it would be kind of awkward for me to MAKE something for him, because thats just not the kind of relationship we have.
He's in to music, horror and comedy movies, and acting silly almost 24/7.
What would be a good gift idea, something that isn't..strange..for our relationship, but at least something to say "Hey, its Valentines day and seeings as we're boyfriend and girlfriend, I thought I should get you something, because..thats how it works and I like having you as a boyfriend." (link)
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Get him a CD.. just make sure he doesn't already have it.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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This is probably going to sound pretty fucking wierd, but it bothers me.
Ok, Im dating this girl. Shes agnostic/athiest, Im christian, formerly catholic non denominational. Up to this point, with the exception of discussion, Ive not really had any issues with religions shit in our relationship. It doesnt bother me that shes agnostic, it hasnt bothered her that Im christian.
So, today we were talking, and I told her I was going to become a reverend in the universal life church. For those of you who dont know, its an online website where you can actually get legally ordained and become a reverend in the eyes of the law. I find this fucking hilarious, and have wanted to for a while, but never got around to it.
She reacted badly. First, she joked that she didnt want to be involved with a reverend. Then she got serious and basically made it clear that it would bother her for me to become a reverend while I was dating her (expressed so that it was clear she didnt want me to do it)
Then she tells me its "disrespectful towards my religion"
This is coming from a girl who Ive watched the jesus episodes of southpark with. Whom I have made catholic joke after catholic joke (Im entitled, I was raised in it) with and laughed with her. Whom I have had frank discussions about the real failings of certain christian sects.
And now this.
Needless to say, I reacted badly. I was, and am pissed at her, for reasons I cant really say. Given that she doesnt even have a religion (because atheism and agnosticism are no more religions than bald is a hair color) I dont see where she gets off getting on me for being "disrespecful" towards mine or having an issue with it when its not like...
Anyway. Enough impassioned speeches, my question to the masses, is what do you think. Am I out of line? Is she? Because Im going to do this, and shes not going to like it. And I dont like feeling guilty for doing things I know arent wrong. (link)
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If you really cared about her you wouldn't do this. Truth is, you ARE being disrespectful to your religion. This IS wrong and you should feel guilty. Unless, you seriously want to become a reverend then do it some other way. Your girlfriend is only respecting your religion and you shoud respect her for it.
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You OBVIOUSLY don't care about your girlfriend. I know my boyfriend wouldn't do ANYTHING like that if he knew I cared about it so much. You need to chill.. it's your choice- your girlfriend or some stupid reverend thing you want to do.
Something like this really is a disgrace to all Christians. I'm a Catholic and don't consider myself highly religious, but THIS goes too far.
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I've liked this boy for a while and he knows it. I asked him to winter formal and he said yes and he got me a corsage and matched me and everything.
A day before formal, I saw that he had left this girl on myspace a comment on this picture of hers saying she was beautiful and stunning and gorgeous. She left him one back saying thanks and he said no problem took the words out of my heart. That REALLY scared me. That girl is a whore. She has a new BF every week and shes ugly.
So last night at formal me and this boy had a BLAST. We seriously freak danced the whole time and held hands and got really close and he didnt even dance with her or anyone else. Just me. He didn't even look at her dancing and she was right by us. He even hugged me when it was time to go.
This morning I left him a comment on said that I had fun and thanked him for taking me and everything, he wrote me one back saying "yea i had fun" and that was IT.
SO does he like me or not? Am I wasting my time on him? I really wanna take things slow, but I dunno if I should even be liking him...
HELP!! I RATE SUPPPPER HIGH!!
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I say he likes you, but you have to look at the good and bad points of this:
Good points: He wouldn't have said yes to go with you in the first place if he didn't have some interest in you. Plus, he wouldn't have like held hands, and hugged you if he didn't like you at all. And he's a guy. Guy's don't usually leave long comments and stuff. But you should talk to him about it. I mean I know people are gonna tell you to talk to him, annd it might not be comfortable doing so, but if you really like him and think he's worth it than go for it.
Bad points: Maybe he isn't a typical guy. All guys I know leave short, to the point comments on Myspace's. But the stuff you said that he said about the other girl makes him sound like he's not that kind of guy. I would be a little weird about it if that's all he said back.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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14/f...okay I really really like one of my better guy friends named Warren. But no one knows it except me. Anyways I he was talking with one of my other friends and he said that he thinks that I like him a little (I tend to make things obvious). I totally freaked out and avoided him for a while so now he doesn't think I *like like* him anymore. It's good for now but I have a feeling that he *might* feel the same way about me. I'm not sure though. Even if he does we both don't want to make a move probably because we don't want the other one acting weird. I have no idea what to do. As far as how to act. Eventually I want him to know that I like him. But I'm not sure about the timing, or even if I should tell him. Should I wait for him to make the first move? What if he doesn't? I'm really confused...PLEASE HELP ME!
thanx
I RATE HIGH!!!^^ (link)
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Never wait for a guy to make the first move. Don't wait for eventually because you might pass up your chance, while it's happening. You're going to have to talk to him about it. Maybe, not in person but over the internet or on the phone. Never pass up a chance because you might regret it. I know I've done a lot of things I regret.. actually more things that I haven't done I regret. If you really really want him then your going to have to make the first move.
You're 14 and old enough to have the guts to make this move and I suggest you do it.
I'm serious about this- you really should listen to this advice. I've been in this situation.
Allieboo
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I love this guy hes my bestfriend and i dont know what to do ive already dated him on and off about 20 times. Im afraid to give him a kiss one because it would be his first kiss and two because weve been bestfriends for 6 years...he keeps asking me to kiss him.. i mean i have kissed a lot of guys but something about kissing my bestfriend feels so weird i want to but i dont ..im so confused..please help! (link)
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Personally I think you should. There's a reason he's saying this. I think it's because he wants his first kiss to be with you. Just kiss him and make him happy, because it's not like your hurting yourself wasting your first kiss on him. If you've kissed alot of guys it really shouldn't affect you.
Hope I helped..
Allieboo
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I'm in the eight grade and I'm a 14 year old female. Some boys think that i am pretty. But I haven't had my first kiss yet. I want my first kiss to be spectacular, something that I will remember forever.
I feel really left out because all of my friends have had their first kiss and more. I just want to know the ages of people when they got their first kiss and details (like where, how, etc.) it will make me feel better. Thank you in advance! (link)
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I was 12 and in 7th grade. My boyfriend and I were walking and I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend being twelve. We ended up walking near my house and luckily nobody was home. But anyways we were at the side of my house and I told him I better go. Usually he would hug me good-bye. But instead he leaned in for a kiss and I almost fell over I was surprised. It wasn't the best kiss but I'l always remember it.
And don't worry about it being spectacular -your always going to remember your first kiss no matter what. If you want it to be soon then don't expect it to be great-- or you'll never get kissed if you expect too much.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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Its a long story but I'll just ask my question.
this guy I liked told me that he used to like me, but he talks to me about the girl he likes now and asks me if she likes him, well when he told me he used to like me I almost said something. but then he said "but then I thought that could never happen" AND YES IT DEF. COULD!! so what can I do OTHER than the obvious, which is telling him how I feel, which I will do if worst comes to worst.
THANKS! (link)
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Well, there's a couple things you could do.
First, you could tell him your pretty sure the girl he likes doesn't like him and likes someone else. Once he gets over her flirt with him but don't make to obvious. Just like do something like say "My hands are really cold tonight" and touch his hand and maybe hold onto it. If he doesn't let go that's a good sign. And if he does he just doesn't get it or he's not interested and you gotta try something different.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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Me and my girlfriend of over 2years have been having some issues lately. She says that she isent sure if she wants to be with me, and when she says this she cries and tells me how much she loves me, however, the reason she doesnt know if she wants to be with me, is because i dont hurry up and finish school. I love this girl so much and definetely see a future with her. Everytime we talk about this, we end up crying , so i decided to send an email, telling her how if she wanted I could brake up with her to make her decision easier, its been 2 days and i have not received an answer to my question, we still talk on the phone all the time and see each other, but no mention of my email is ever brought up. What should I do? How much time do i need to give her to make up her mind? its killing me knowing that she is contemplating braking up. (link)
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Ok, you're taking the wrong approach to things. If you care about her this much you can't go around telling her it's her decision. I've done this to my boyfriend before. The only way I stop thinking about breaking up with him is when he makes it absolutely clear that he doesn't want to break up. You can't go around telling her it's her decision or she's going to think you don't care if she does breka up with you.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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