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I have a choice to make and can't make it.
Well lets start. I am 16 going on 17 my boyfriend is 18 going on 19 and my ex is 17 going on 18. Ok. I used to go with the 17 year old and i really fell for him like really feel for him. I know he loves me too but he just doesn't know how to treat me. When i got fed up w/the way he was treating me i met my boyfriend now i broke with my ex to be with him. We have been together now for 3 months and i really care about him. But the other guy has been trying to get me back since we broke up and i was like no cause he wasn't what i wanted anymore and i started to really fall for my boyfriend, but i never lost my feelings for my ex. Now me and my boyfriend are going through it and we dont talk like at all. I talk to my ex more than i talk to my boyfriend. He is really trying to get me back and i really do love him but i don't know, there is something telling me that shouldn't. I mean i do love but he has put me through so much already. I also care about my boyfriend now but our relationship is not doing so well and i really feel that we should just split up but i really wanna be with him. I dont know what to do. Do i break up with my boyfriend and go back with my ex (who i really am starting to want to be with) or do i break up with my boyfriend and not go back with my ex. Or do i just not break up with my boyfriend at all (which i really don't want to do). Please excuse the lengh. Please help
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My advice for you is to go back to your ex if you want to so bad. It sounds like you are in l-o-v-e. And that does NOT go away. Before you do though keep this is mind--
--Talk to him about treating you right this time and if he really wants you he'll treat you right. Tell him if he treats you bad it's over. Maybe just to scare him a bit.
--Also keep in mind things might be a little weird for awhile. Something kinda like this happened to me and I went back to my ex and at first it was weird but it's all good now.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo <3
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I DID try to tell you what's best for you. I wasn't saying you have to do what I did, I was JUST saying that it helped me when I was in that situation.
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Well this really is a love triangle!!
Okay, If I'm to be totally honest, I think the best thing you can do right now is to resign to be with neither of them. I know what you're thinking. It's a really stupid idea. But if you can't choose between them then perhaps you're not being fair to them OR you?
At the end of the day, your ex is very much in the wrong for effectively messing with your head. You are with someone else and he should be leaving you alone to be with that person. If I was you, I probably wouldn't have much faith in the manner in which he conducts relationships. After all, if he really did care about you, surely he'd want you to be happy, no matter who that was with?? Maybe deep down, you realise that and that is why you're not sure.
It's possible that rather than be tempted away by your ex, you should be giving your relationship with your boyfriend another try but under the circumstances, it's best that you get away from the situation entirely for a while and clear your mind. Basically, you need time to think it through without the complications that their presence causes you.
Once you've stepped out of the situation for a while (Maybe by telling your boyfriend you need a 'break' or something similar), you'll be in a better position to decide what you want. Whether it be one of those guys, or neither.
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