here's the thing --- guys just do not look at me as "girlfriend material". i am 14 and most guys just aren't interested in "my type". i am a really big tom-boy and hang out with a lot of guys. i have girl-friends too but we hang with several guys. i really like this one guy in particular. how can i get him to notice me? i am popular, but not the "it girl" i play soccer and basketball and am well-known but i just don't get boyfriends. i go to a small private school (less than 1000 kids pre-k thru 12) so there aren't many choices. the guy i like is one of my friends but how can i get him to see me as more than a friend? what do 14 year old guys like in a girl? i am not desperate at all or anything... i am just ready for a relationship. anything will help! i'll rate 5's!
-too much acne
-too much of a change in a little time (no make-up to TONS)
-real short hair
-chapped lips
-tells their parents or whatever everything
-anorexic girls or girls who eat IMMENSE amounts of food
-tattletales/good two shoes/extra brainy
-prudeness-- that's a big one.
sillyrob answered Tuesday February 14 2006, 12:24 am: You're fourteen, it really isn't that big of a deal if you find a boyfriend. Anyways, boys your age don't always notice girls like they will in a couple years. Just have fun and enjoy your youth before all the drama starts of high school. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
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