well i have a bunch of guy friends. and we're all really tight!!! but now like randomly they all started liking me, but i have a boyfriend!!!
how do i stay friends with them?!?!!?
just b/c they like you really dosn't mean anything. Just tell them that truth and don't lead them on, just be like hey i like you as a friend and only a friend. NOthing to sweat
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13/f
when a guy says to you "what's up?" and you normally don't talk to him... are you supposed to say "good" or "hey"?
Like.. is the phrase "whats up" supposed to be asking the person how they are doing?? or is that phrase just saying Hi in a different way?
umm no thats not what it means
If someone would say whats up? it means like what are you up to?
So you can say nothing, or likie homework etc. (just whatever you are doing)
mostly i saw nothing much, what about you?
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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out?
Well if you like him, then thats all you need. Who cares what other people think of him :) just be yourself, and don't look at this kid with a bad opinion b/c others don't like him, if you do then go for it :) Make yourself happy, and forget about what others may say
& when people ask you why your going out with him, just say that he truly makes you happy, hes nice, and he actually listens to what you say :)
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Hey im a 13/f and i have a boyfriend that is almost 14 and he is like the sweetest guy ever. and i love him to death !! But We bolth have this thing were we wanna kiss eachother but we dont know how long we should or how intament it should be so can you help me??? should iit be a peck on the cheek or like lip locking ? we wanna lip lock but yeah can you help??
Aww thats soo cute you both want to kiss eachother. But your first kiss should jsut be whatever you want it to be. Just kiss eachother and whatever happens happens :) have fun
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so theres this guy and we sorta got really close over winter break and we made out and stuff and then all the sudden he stopped talking to me.. i found out that my friend told him i liked him and to back off because i did. well, he listened to her and doesnt talk to me much and idk i sorta do like him but not enough that it even shows, but i still want to be friends with him.. and i try to have online convos with him but they just seem akward so i guess... what can i talk with him about.. like what are guys interested in talking about with girls.. or how do i get into like a really flirty convo with him?
haha wow. thats really stupid of your friend to do. But idk i say talk to this guy and be like look. ok idk what my friend told you..blah blah blah. and then be like i just feel like you've been giving me the cold sholder now, and we barly talk. Just confrom the cutie about it and say what you think/feel
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okayy so I am absolutely in love with this boy. He is my best guy friend's best friend. We've hooked up once before. After that night we talked for a little bit and then we just stopped but me my best friend her boyfriend(who is my best guy friend) and him all still hang out and me and him still talk. Im falling soo deep in love with him but he doesn't know. I am so afraid to tell him that i like him because i just know he doesn't feel the same way about me. Im scared of rejection. Any way I can get around this or over it? I have to see him every weekend and I dont wanna feel awkward. Please help! thanks!
i know that your scared of rejection, and it does hurt and really suck. But are you sure he dosn't feel the same way?? has he told you that he dosn't like you? Just tell him how you feel, b/c maybe hes having the same problem that your having. Maybe hes also afraid of rejection and too shy to say anything.
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hi i know this is really long buti just need to know!! im 16 and a soph in hs..i like this girl that im really close friends with alot and ive told her before how i feel and she said she just doesnt want to risk our friendship...i told her i would never let that happen but she said she didnt kno and now she has a senior bf of about 4 months and i really care for her..ive tried other girls but none compare to her..thers just something about her that keeps pulling me back...should i tell her and risk getting her away from her boyfriend and maybe with me or do i risk it and have the possibility of ruining a chance of her...ps we are supposed to hang out this comming weekend so should i do it now or after we hang out or when we hang out..thanks so much in advance
well i would tell her how you feel most deffentaly. When you do it? well i say after you hang out. And if shes still going out with that senior then i realize it'll be a lot harder. but you should just tell her how you feel. and spill out everything. If she still says she dosn't want to ruin the friendship, then tell her your willing to put that on the line, b/c you know taht having her will make you soo much happier. But also tell her that you don't want it to ruin the friendship neither. But i know how it is to kinda be in the spot.
&& while i said just tell her..you also have to think of what you really really want. A friendship that'll last forever, or being more for possibly a small amount of time?
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Alright so you answered my question before about the guy I like who I haven't talked to much. Well today, thank God, I talked to him! He is on the track team and so is my best friend (they don't know each other though), and so is one of my guy friends. I had time to wait around before my lacrosse practice so I talked to him for a few minutes. We were just joking around, and I felt comfortable with him again, good, haha and he's just so adorable.
So this could happen more often - any ideas what I could do to strike up some conversation? I don't know why but I don't seem to handle questions like "how's school?" or "how was your day?" very well. haha. And I heard he might have a girlfriend. But his facebook says single. lol not that I should rely on the internet but I don't know what to do.
Since I'm not like totally in love with him at this point if he had a girlfriend I would still want to try to be friends with him because he's a great kid. But I don't know what I should do for now. I don't really have any way of knowing without making it totally obvious - and I don't want to just be like hey what's up are you single? Haha so any help? Thanks!
haha I have the problem too...guys just pretty much suck talking to if you have a crush on them :) but i would say just ask stupid little questions like hows school. but you don't handle those questions very well, so i would say umm. idk just talk about stupid little things like that totaly sucky h/w project you have (well if you have same classes?)
but for finding out if he has a gf or not, thats pretty tuff. Find a friend that sorta knows him or one of his friends and ask them to ask if they know if hes single or not? You don't have to ask if he has a gf, b/c that sounds werid, but something like hey are you single! is soo totaly more cute!! haha
But umm if you ever find out what to say to a guy tell me too :) haha
I have an ex thats now saying a YEAR later that hes never stopped loving me (by the way hes the one that broke up with ME) so its all kinda werid. && i never really see him, so we never really talk, only on aol every once in a while...ahha it just ALL SUCKS
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so i like this guy...and we're kinda friends...like we talk online and stuff...but his computer broke...and i we were messaging yesterday..but idk..in person we barely ever talk...and i want to get closer to him and i know that i have to talk to him in person..but i just don't know what to say...i mean like even online and messaging..he ususally doesnt start conversations and he doesnt usually sound too interested...like one word answers..so how can i get closer to him? and if i talk to him in person..what should i say?
well ask if he would liek to hang out, then you would have to talk in person. && think about it sometimes you just don't have anything else to say, so you just say stupid one word answers.
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okay im 16/f to start off =]
well there\'s this guy named jamie in my school... he just moved like 2 weeks ago i guess... i never saw him until last thursday... because he just started eating outside during lunch time(where i sit)
so we started talking and he seemed cool enough... and definetly cute and handsome xd
and then day after that i asked him if he had msn and he said no... i asked for myspace and he said yes but i couldnt remember his url because it was too long so i told him to give it to me later and he said i can call him so he can tell me then... so wow i got his number out of nowhere (score!!)
so i called him later when i got back... his phone was still from where he used to live so it was temporarily out of service... wtf... did he do it intentionally???
so then on monday i saw him so i asked him wud up? and he said yeah but i can give you my house number if you want at lunch because we just got it... and im like okay...
so at lunch i ask for it and he said he doesnt rly remember so i should give him my number so he can call my cell because i have caller id...so im like okay and give him my number...
then i ask him if he wants to hang out with me and whole buncha other people on friday and he said
yeah ill ask my parents and call you tonight...
so he hasnt called yet but i dont get it... does he not like me that he\'s avoiding or something? with the phone number i mean...
and how do i play hard to get? im so confused!!!
well since hes new to the school, maybe hes still a little shy.
But he also kinda seems weird for giving you his cell number when its where he used to live, and its kinda weird that he was like i'll give you my home phone, and then can't remember it. kinda werid
But just b/c he didn't call really dosn't mean anything yet. If he keep blowing you off then i would get a little worried.
but as of now hes new and is meeting new people everyday. Just give him a little while to settle in
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okay well i'm just going to make up names before i start.
alyssa and rob are dating.
dana and nick are dating.
rick is my ex boyfriend who i dated for a year and a half.
alex is my ex boyfriend who i recently broke up with.
oh and i'm 13/f by the way
okay well here it goes. after a year and a half of dating rick, on and off because he broke up with me 6 times during then but whatever, i broke up with him and to get him jealous, i went out with alex also because i though he was nice and cute. well me and alex dated for about 5 months exactly the day we broke up. alex and i used to always hang out with our best friends/couples. (alyssa, rob, dana, and nick). so once i broke up with alex because i really missed rick, alex was reallyyy upset and for awhile was always telling me how much he loved me and missed me and crying all the time and stuff. then i found out that rick never stopped liking me since the day we broke up. so me and him would hang out occasionaly and stuff but then the next thing i know alyssa, rob, and dana are all super pissed at me and telling me that i was leading alex AND rick on becuase they both thought they would get me in the end even though i told alex i didn't want to date anymore and stuff. well as of yesterday(2 or 3 weeks after alex and i broke up) i told rick i wanted to go out becuase he had been telling me he wanted to really bad and stuff. but alyssa and dana and rob would all rather hang out with alex than me it seems. yeah occasionally they'll invite me to hang out, knowing i really don't want to hang with alex just yet, and so i'll agree to it and then the next thing i know alex is hanging out too. its like he stole all my friends from me and i don't know what to do. i'm really happy to be back with rick again, but i want my friends back. and its hard because i'm already in this down and depressed mood lately because i HATE my dad and stuff and i have no one really to cheer me up. all my best friends would rather alex over me and all my other friends don't call me or anything. my dad was recently arrested, and is back on herion and cannot afford anything anymore. yes my parents are divorced but he lives about a mile down the street. and my mom is getting married but they're always fighting. and i just don't know what to do anymore. i'm going to a different school next year to hopefully start off fresh and if that doesn't work were moving down south to south carolina from massachusetts. please, some advice on what to do to be somewhat more happier please!
oh wow. that really stinks...it all.
but ok its really stupid that your friends are picking alex over you. but just hang out with them all + rick. Possibly find another friend that Alex can hangout with/like w/e you want to say. And when you move to the new school. it is a lot like a new slat, find some new friends. And if you not still dating Rick then possibly find a NEW guy :) haha
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okay im sry but this is gonna be long... Okay 15/M Im currently in a relationship and i guess things are goin good she always goes to her friends houses though and they are boys but those boys are geeks and she says she doesnt like them, and my ex sammie whom cheated on me(well was through up against a locker and made out with some dude) is still in love with me and we had sex be4 and she wants to agin and says she is still in love with me after 6 months(we constantly talk) and i love her still to then this girl i just meet liek a week ago tiffany is soo awsome she keeps beggin to me that she wants a long relationship and wants to hang with me and chill and i guess one of my asshole friends told her i want to bang her which i wouldnt mind but never said and Tiffany goes to me tonight on aim so i hear you want me, baby i want you too how about tom night? omg everyone what do i do?
umm gosh, you have a lot of problems, decide who you like and then go for her. but if all you want to do is bang them, well on behalf of MOST girls fuck you
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hey well my ex broke up with me on december. so weve been talking and lately he's been saying that he misses me and that he wants me back. so like i decided to just step away for a while. by the way we latsted 10 months.
so during that time i decided that i missed him so much so i wrote him a myspace comment. i cant call him because he doesnt have his cell anymore. so he told me that he wanted me back and i told him that i dont know because im really scared of getting hurt again. and he said it wont happen again because he feels something more. so he told me to be straight up with him so i did. and i told him that i rally like him and i asked him out. was that weired for him? if so what else did he want me to do. that was like my only choice. so i waited and i saw he was online on myspace and he never wrote back to my message. what do i do now.
srry if it was long thanks so much!
well i'm kinda in the same sittuation, my ex wants me back now too. we messaged a few times back and forth on myspace, and the one time it said that he had read the message, but he didn't send me anything back. but then a few days later he ended up sending me a message back. So maybe hes just trying to think of something good to send back or something? but from the looks of it he does want you back, so if you do truely want him back too, don't sweat it :)
Like I said i'm in the same sitt. and it kinda stinks for now, but i guess give it some time and it'll get better?
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i am horrible at making conversation. especially when it comes to talking to someone i like, who happens to only be an acquantaince.
so, november (yes that long ago) i went to a school football game with my friends and i met a boy who is a year older than me. we have a mutual friend i guess. (that friend now knows i like this boy... but he doesnt know that i know he knows... wow sorry if thats real confusing)
anyway i didnt automatically know i liked him. i never really gave him a second thought until a few days later. i realized i had felt so comfortable talking to him (which was probably only like 3 minutes haha) and thats very unusual for me to find in a person, especially a person i just met. i started to be a little interested in him and then i realized he is just flat out adorable.
well since then we exchange a hey in the halls, but since hes older we dont share any classes. and recently, my best guy friend, who knew him 2 years ago, tried to help me out. he saw him at a basketball game and talked to him and asked him what he thought about me. his reply was "what do you mean?" so my friend asked if he thought i looked good. and he apparently "said yea in a 'duh' tone of voice" according to my friend. haha so im glad with that. and ever since that day, in the hall he would just give me a funny face or something or purposely like dramatically look away and then look back.
he also requested me on myspace and facebook, and i would talk to him there if i knew him better but i dont want to be like creepy online stalker and never actually talk to him in real life.
anyway, point is, i still like him after a long time and i havent had the courage to say pretty much ANYTHING to him. i mean maybe 2 or 3 times we've had a really short "conversation". i just never have any idea what to say - and i know i was so comfortable with him when i met him, but ive become so like obsessed with him (not literally but i still feel like ive convinced myself to like him more than i originally did? i dont know how to explain it) that i have psyched myself into being afraid to talk to him.
the few times i see him daily are for short periods of time so its not like i can start a huge conversation, we only pass by each other... is there something i can say to maybe get his attention in those couple seconds? something funny? i dont know. i just wish i could get to know him better. hes really cool.
i know the whole confidence deal with guys being attracted to confident girls.. and i try but im kind of helpless. i always feel awkward because i cant think of what to say in conversations even with good friends sometimes... and this will sound stupid but i never know what to do with my hands ever... like just walking i cant keep them at my side.
im a mess lol anyone want to help out?
I know excally how you feel...
but umm maybe try leaving him a comment, something just stuipd and little like hey whats up?!
just something little like that will get him thinking about you :)
and if you guys talk on aim (or w/e you have) then sometimes i like to play 20 questions with people. Just ask him 20 random questions, and then he can ask you 20 random questions. If a good game and can kinda break the ice.
&& also maybe see if he wants to go see a movie, or go bowling? anything your into. & then see were things go from there :)
i hope i helped. but i totaly know how you feel it sucks. ahah
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Hey,
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 18 months now, and before recently all we had done was making out. I'm 15 (16 in 2 months) and he has just turned 16.
However, he's started fingering me and I've been giving him hand jobs and stuff. I'm really happy about this, I'm ready and everything, and he waited until I was completely sure, so all is good.
But what is your opinion about doing these things and at what age? How young is too young? What age do you think is okay for these kind of actions?
Thanks :)
i think that as long as you know hes not taking advantage of you, and you both feel comfortable and are ready to do stuff...then your not to young.
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okay. so like when my crush ims me hes like ehy cutie =D what do i say? do i just say hi or?
say something cute back like hey handsome! he'll totally love it, and you :)
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okay i reallllly likke this guy. When ever i think about him i smile and i get this weird feeling in my stomach, its not like butterflies though. He just makse me so happy =D. when ever i talk to him i feel like i can tell him everything and we are the only two people in the room or something, Its just such a great feeling :d. we hung out the other night with a couple of other people and it was SOOO fun. while two friends [ girl ] went off with there boyfriends, me my crush my best friend [girl] and my other fiend [boy] just stayed together, it was really great. Then my two friends left cus my friend thats a boy had to go get somethintg and they left me adn my crush alone, it was soo perfect, we talked and laughed, and flirtedd :-*! We even held hands for like a couple seconds! i almost dieddd. i could keep typing foreverrr
uhh yes i would say its more lust/crush for now. but idk i could turn to love :)
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So yeah I'm 15 and a boy,
I know this might be strange, but I just suddenly started liking this girl recently. I can't ever stop thinking about her. I don't think about her in a sexual way, but more of a loving way.
There are problems though. This girl goes to a different school than me and I'm hesitant about going out with someone that doesn't go to my school.
The second thing is, all my friends told me that dating is a complete waste of time until you're older.
This seems like the first time I've REALLY liked someone. Unlike some of my friends, I don't really look at the size of girl's boobs or anything, I tend to look at the inside. Does that make me more mature or something, or am I being rash? Tell me what you think.
well dating a girl from a differnet school isn't that big of a deal.
and OMG i really wish that more guys were like you! haha
but don't worry about your friends saying dating is just a waste of time, because well it really isn't. Your young, so you should have fun and do what YOU want to.
& mattering more of whats on the inside, is kinda more of a mature thing, but its also just the person you are. But i say just go for the girl :)
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well i have this problem with my dad. it would take a while to explain so im not gonna get into that but ill just tell u somthing that happend. i have been getting good grades for a while now and that never happens to me and my dad never said good job or anything to me and he always compares me to my 'perfect' sister she was good at everything and im just not. he makes me think that im not good at anything and i sometimes believe it. but lately i have been being a real bitch to my bf and i just cant help it. i dont want to take my anger out on him but idont know how to stop or how else to get rid of my anger..i cant really just talk to my dad about this. so what do i do? i really love my bf and i dont want to loose him because of this and it seems like that is whats going to happen if i dont knock it off.
well isn't of taking your angry out on your bf, maybe just talk to him about it. It will help you. i know thats not much advice but maybe just try it?
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hey.
my guy friend who i really really like asked me if i would be his girlfriend earlier in the week and i was really happy and everything
Well i'm sure the guy still likes you, if you both decided taht you would just figure things out after your friend out over it. But maybe he dosn't konw that shes completly over it and that now you can go out! But maybe just ask to hang out and see if he tries to "make a move" on you. and if he does then i'd say hes ALL YOURS :)
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