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crushing for so long
i am horrible at making conversation. especially when it comes to talking to someone i like, who happens to only be an acquantaince.
so, november (yes that long ago) i went to a school football game with my friends and i met a boy who is a year older than me. we have a mutual friend i guess. (that friend now knows i like this boy... but he doesnt know that i know he knows... wow sorry if thats real confusing)
anyway i didnt automatically know i liked him. i never really gave him a second thought until a few days later. i realized i had felt so comfortable talking to him (which was probably only like 3 minutes haha) and thats very unusual for me to find in a person, especially a person i just met. i started to be a little interested in him and then i realized he is just flat out adorable.
well since then we exchange a hey in the halls, but since hes older we dont share any classes. and recently, my best guy friend, who knew him 2 years ago, tried to help me out. he saw him at a basketball game and talked to him and asked him what he thought about me. his reply was "what do you mean?" so my friend asked if he thought i looked good. and he apparently "said yea in a 'duh' tone of voice" according to my friend. haha so im glad with that. and ever since that day, in the hall he would just give me a funny face or something or purposely like dramatically look away and then look back.
he also requested me on myspace and facebook, and i would talk to him there if i knew him better but i dont want to be like creepy online stalker and never actually talk to him in real life.
anyway, point is, i still like him after a long time and i havent had the courage to say pretty much ANYTHING to him. i mean maybe 2 or 3 times we've had a really short "conversation". i just never have any idea what to say - and i know i was so comfortable with him when i met him, but ive become so like obsessed with him (not literally but i still feel like ive convinced myself to like him more than i originally did? i dont know how to explain it) that i have psyched myself into being afraid to talk to him.
the few times i see him daily are for short periods of time so its not like i can start a huge conversation, we only pass by each other... is there something i can say to maybe get his attention in those couple seconds? something funny? i dont know. i just wish i could get to know him better. hes really cool.
i know the whole confidence deal with guys being attracted to confident girls.. and i try but im kind of helpless. i always feel awkward because i cant think of what to say in conversations even with good friends sometimes... and this will sound stupid but i never know what to do with my hands ever... like just walking i cant keep them at my side.
im a mess lol anyone want to help out?
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I know excally how you feel...
but umm maybe try leaving him a comment, something just stuipd and little like hey whats up?!
just something little like that will get him thinking about you :)
and if you guys talk on aim (or w/e you have) then sometimes i like to play 20 questions with people. Just ask him 20 random questions, and then he can ask you 20 random questions. If a good game and can kinda break the ice.
&& also maybe see if he wants to go see a movie, or go bowling? anything your into. & then see were things go from there :)
i hope i helped. but i totaly know how you feel it sucks. ahah
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Awh, don't worry about it, but here's what i would do if i was in your situation.
first off, message him or comment him or instant message him saying hey whats up? we barely talk; we should hangout. and that might show him you're interested.
then when you see him, ask him how schools going and ask about hanging out. i know you might be scared, but just blurt it out, and see what happens.
just try not to put it off, because he might change his mind or make other plans.
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