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he likes me, he likes me not
okay im 16/f to start off =]
well there\'s this guy named jamie in my school... he just moved like 2 weeks ago i guess... i never saw him until last thursday... because he just started eating outside during lunch time(where i sit)
so we started talking and he seemed cool enough... and definetly cute and handsome xd
and then day after that i asked him if he had msn and he said no... i asked for myspace and he said yes but i couldnt remember his url because it was too long so i told him to give it to me later and he said i can call him so he can tell me then... so wow i got his number out of nowhere (score!!)
so i called him later when i got back... his phone was still from where he used to live so it was temporarily out of service... wtf... did he do it intentionally???
so then on monday i saw him so i asked him wud up? and he said yeah but i can give you my house number if you want at lunch because we just got it... and im like okay...
so at lunch i ask for it and he said he doesnt rly remember so i should give him my number so he can call my cell because i have caller id...so im like okay and give him my number...
then i ask him if he wants to hang out with me and whole buncha other people on friday and he said
yeah ill ask my parents and call you tonight...
so he hasnt called yet but i dont get it... does he not like me that he\'s avoiding or something? with the phone number i mean...
and how do i play hard to get? im so confused!!!
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well since hes new to the school, maybe hes still a little shy.
But he also kinda seems weird for giving you his cell number when its where he used to live, and its kinda weird that he was like i'll give you my home phone, and then can't remember it. kinda werid
But just b/c he didn't call really dosn't mean anything yet. If he keep blowing you off then i would get a little worried.
but as of now hes new and is meeting new people everyday. Just give him a little while to settle in
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hey, well this could be two different things. a} he likes you and is shy and afraid to call you or b} he`s not interested in you and doesn`t know how to tell you nicely and thinks that avoiding you is the best route. you should ask him straight up what the deal is. do it yourself, don`t ask friends too, things can be easily confused if you do that. playing hard to get is sometimes a turnoff for guys. yeah, some guys like the chase for a while, but eventually if they want a serious relationship playing hard to get gets annoying. just try subtle flirting. eye contact is key. go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) for flirting tips and help.
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When a guy doesn't automatically call you, why do you assume that he doesn't like you? There are so many positive answers to this, but all girls ever do is think of the negatives.
He could be busy doing his homework, or maybe he's just too shy to call you. Maybe he wants to, but doesn't know what to say. I think he does like you, but like he said: he's new here, so he's not gonna remember certain things for a while because he's still getting used to things.
I'm pretty sure that if you moved some place, & you'd been so used to your old phone numbers & addresses, that you wouldn't exactly remember on the spot either. Don't give him a hard time about it.
And have him write down his MySpace URL for you. And as for his cell phone number, he probably didn't give you the area code. Usually when someone lives somewhere else, the area code is different, and you'd need it to call them. And it's still early. He'll call you eventually.
No worries. =)
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