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im a freshman in like two weeks. i want to ask if its really going to be as bad as some people say it is (acedemically & socially)

thanks for the advice!!
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I'm an incoming sophmore and I was thinking the same way last year...and to tell you the truth freshman year wasn't as bad as i thought it was..i had a blast and i kno you will too...no one picked on me cuz i was a freshman...but at the same way no one knew i didn't go around and say hey look at me i'm a freshman...lol...as long as you don't go around and do that there shouldn't be a problem..newayz...acedemically the year was great for me aswell...over all i loved last year and i'm look forward to this year...hope i helped!!
~Linda

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Alright. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and I'm having a little issue. Whenever we first started dating he cussed a whole lot, and to me cussing is kind of unattractive. Well, he stopped cussing for me. He just went to Arkansas for the weekend with his cousin and I called him today and he was cussing like crazy. I asked him how much he has been cussing and he said in a real sarcastic voice "I don't have an exact number." Earlier in the month I told him he acted sort of different around me and his friends. He sort of blows me off. He becomes very sarcastic and sort of rude, just like in his comment about cussing. What should I do? Am I right to be kind of upset about this? He knows how much I don't like him cussing...

Well I find excssive cussing unattractive as well... I would upset as well. You have been going out for 9 months!, and if at one point he stopped for you then there is no reason for him to blow you off or to be cussing around you again.... I would just have a one on one conversation with him. He may know how you feel about cussing, but it can't hurt to remind him.... Hope I helped!!
~Linda
...and remember that everything happens for a reason and don't blame yourself! :D

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Ok, so schools out and I'm really bored...Where are some fun places to hang out /fun things to do, etc during the summer?

Movies
Beach if there is one where ever you live...
go to a friend's house
invite friend's over
go to a theme park
pool
play video games
chat
ice skate
roller skate
concert
dance
under age club
....ect....
Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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my Boyfirend is a complete sex ADDICT! This is the first guy I have actually had true feelings for! I have known him since I was 7 and I have liked him since. We started goin out 3 months ago and we made out the first night. We have madeout countless times now and I SO LOVE HIM!but, he has boners all the time when I'm leaning on him. and he was kinda humping me last time we were makin out.TOday, he was askin me all these questions like, DO U LIKE IT HARD? DO U WANT TO BE ON TOP? I AM A VIRGIN CATHOLIC and i love him so don't say break up with him! I am only 14 and I don't want to risk pregnancy!

The very first thing that you have to do is tell him how you feel.. let him now how far you want to go. If you want to continue to be a virgin then let him know. If he is the right one, then he will respect that. The ones you love should never push you into something you do not want to do... Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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ok so my friend says shes not obbsessed with this guy but she is and he is the only thing she ever talks about it is soo annoying!!! she is always talking about how rich he is and how his parents might rent a limo to take them to a formal dance im not jelous at all b/c he is like my brother but ever other word that comes out of her mouth is his name! and so this has gone on for about 2 weeks and about a day or two ago i have been saying loser a lot and i dono y and she is getting mad at me for that and i dono y b/c she has said his name about 50 times today and i have only said loser about 10 ugh! its making me so mad! can someone please tell me why she is doing this?

Well, I'm like in the same position as your friend. I like my friend's brother. She knows and she doesn't care. I feel really awkward talking to her about it, so your lucky your friend talks to you about him because you don't want her to go behind your back. Anyways, your friend is probably really excited that she has a "connection" to her crush. Just let her go off and tell you whatever and just try not to say anything because she may feel offended by thte fact that you call her a loser, just because she likes your bro. At least that is what i think is going around in her head. I know that when someone has a crush on someone they become and let out all their energy on talking about him to the closest person she can rely on, which is you. I know cuz i've done it. lol. but at least i catch myself talking to much about something. If she continues just tell her that you are getting tired of her talking about him because you see him all the time and wouldn't like to spend all of your time thinking about him. Hope I helped!!!!
Plz, give feedback! :)
~Linda

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ok well i liked this boy for a really long time, and my friend told him i wanted to talk to him. Turns out he has a girlfriend but what got me was what he said. "I have a girlfriend now, but maybe when we break up." ok who says that? am i overreacting or something cause now i dont even wanna talk to him. Who thinks about when theyre gonna break up with the person they're with? does he think hes a pimp or something? ugh.. i jus wanna see someone elses view. thannks!

I do not think that you are overreacting because if I was his girlfriend at the time, I would break up immediately. No one should think about when they break up with someone. Thats awful. Just forget about him and look around, there are sure to be plenty of other guys around to talk to and would never do that to a girl. So leave the pimp behind and look for somebody else. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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this dude at my school likes me and i dont like him back....i dont have the heart to say no to him...because i mite have a LITTLE crush on him.........i dont really knw what to do please help

Well I would just get to know him better as friends. Just go out with friends. Just don't make him think it is a date. You don't want that when your not sure on your own feelings. Since there might be something, you don't want to destroy it. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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i got this ex that only asked me out cuz of a bet and we ended out liking eachother i wana be friends with him again and we dont talk at all any more what do i do

FORGET THAT LOSER!!!! (He really asked u out again) He's a dumb butt. He's nasty and he looks like and orge. Probably shrek's bro. You know that I'm only saying that because I know you, but anyways it depends on you. Do you still like him enough to go out with him again. plus, u have to realize that you have not been talking to him in a long time. You went out and then stopped like cold turkey. Now all of a sudden he wants you back. plz, LoLo get real. Plus I thought you were taking a break on all of this BF stuff. But anyways it depends on your feelings and on your trust factor. You never know, it could be another bet. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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he and his girlfriend broke up about two months ago almost
so now we hang out a lot because we're getting to be close friends, last week he asked if i wantd him to walk me to the door...this week he came over, we sortof snuggled/had heads on eachothers shoulders. then he gave me a huge hug, spun me around and gave me two kisses on my forehead at the end of the night.

two days later he IMed me and was like "i missed you today" ..is this just stuff a classy guy would do with a close friend....or is there something else there??

WOW!
I really wish I was you. If you like him then go for it. He seems like he really likes you. This might be a match made in heaven! But there is something definetly there, not just anyone would do that. Plus, do you see him doing that to other girls. Think about it.
Let me know how it goes! Hope I helped!
~Linda

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