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i was just wondering if anyone had any good ideas for a birthday party :-/ nothing to extrodinary,it's just with a couple of friends.
thanx for any ideas :-D

How about a sleepover. Or a trip to the beach. or to the movies
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Ok so theres this boy in my class and he always make fun of me saying something about how my chest is small or w/e, i wouldnt care but he ytell it to all his friend that are boy , there are 20 ppl in my class soo that not alot if yo think about it, its really embarssing and even if I say sotp he doesnt!! Please I feel relaly uncomforatble.

Just tell him that your not bothered what he has to say and you dont have to listen to what ever shit hes got to say. Make fun of the size of his dick/nose/ears something that is big/small.

luv roxie
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Boys are idiots sometimes.

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is there anyway i can ban someone for cursing people out and saying its me? i have a hater thats really annoying me. im xoseenbeenxo

Report it to The police you should have to deal with it if you havent done anything.

luv roxie
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what happend was my gf dumped me now shes spreading rumors and turning all my friends against me i am a male and im 14 what exactly should i do.

You should talk to her. Shes obiously upset and she needs some talking to. Just say that you didnt feel like your relationship was going anywhere and as for her tell rumors, just tell your mates there not true if there true friends they will understand and believe you.

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Today i really have to go to my grandmothers becasue their are some people that i want to see who live across the street from her. The only thing is my mom wont go anywhere today and the big problem is she doesnt want me hanging out over there. What can i do to convince her to go today right now?

Just say that you want to hang out and be friends with different people and meet new people.

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I have a major problem with giving speeches in front of the class. This week I am the only one left to do my speech, but I don't thick I can. I start to shake, and I can't talk right. I've tried looking over people's heads but it doesnt work. What can I do to get rid of this fear?

Practice doing it infront of a few friends! and see how it goes. Just make sure you speak clearly and if your really scared take a deep breath and just go for it. Because your thinking that you just want to get it over with and once your talking it gets easyer.

luv roxie
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good luck you'll do fine!

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How do I start a conversation with a guy I barely know? I know some things about him, but how do I start talking to him without sounding like a complete goof-ball. I just want to be comfortable, so that I can talk to him. Please help me!!

Just start talking about anything. If he likes you he will help you and make it easy for you. Just talk about school. and what teachers hes got and what hes upto usual stuff.

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how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care?

Just ignore them! If they start saying stuff, just say get over it. Thats the old rumor! keep up. Make it a joke then they will realise that it doesnt bother you at all!

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Is it normal to think your boyfriend is going to break up with you? I don't like being online because most of my relationships ended that way and I'm afraid of getting notes... My other two relationships were pretty bad and I dunno...Am I too paranoid?

Your a little paranoid dont worry about it some people think that. Just forget that you think hes going to break up with you and have a good time.

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I like this guy at my school and he flirts with me and stuff but my friend likes him too so i asked for her and he said he likes her!!! so now i am depressd do u think it is true or he is just saying it??

-heartbroken

Hi. If you like him, you dont really want to upset your friend by asking him out or telling her that you like him. Hang in there he might like you soon.

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any good stores in... SC, CALI? like for striped, polkadot, dress-skirt type of things?

Just type it in in google and there should be alot of stores where you can get it from.
luv roxie

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I like this kid alot, we went out a while ago but things were different then. hes become alot more popular wit the girls and everything now, and hes really cocky too, i told him i still liked him and he said he might like me and i wouldnt be wasteing my time going for him. But he'll flirt on and off and says he doesnt like anyone. should i just give up on him or try and make him like me.

There isnt much point wasting your time waiting for him to ask you out. Go out and find some other nice guy that you can start like and who will like you.

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My best friend was/is a guy. We'll call him Bob. Well Bob just got a girlfriend and they had been extremely tight before they went out. Now all of a sudden, Bob's barely talking to me or hanging out with me anymore. I miss hangingout with him. If I confronted him he'd probably listen but not do anything because he'd forget. Please help I really miss him :(

You need to tell him how you feel, Be honest and confont him and just tell him what you feel. That you can never spend anytime with him and when you want or need to talk to him hes always with his girlfriend. See what he says if he says ok he will hang out with you then say ok cool. If he says your been perfectic, tell him he just lost a friend. And walk away.

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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy! so that guy already knows cause 1 of my friends blabbed and he said i was pretty and all, but he hasn't asked me out! i talk to him whenever i can in class and stuff, but it doesn't seem to be working! oh ya, he's never had a gf before! how i do i get him to ask me out? pleaz help!

He could be shy in asking you , Why dont you ask him to the movies or to the beach or to yours and watch a few films. Then ask him out if he thinks your pretty he might say yes.

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hey my lips are always dry and i dont know why. i have to lick them all the time to keep them wet. they arent chapt so i dont need chap stick, but what should i do? i rate high

Get some vasaline. Its only 99p But it wont be more where you are you can get it in small sticks or in a round really small tub which you can carry around with you, just put a bit on when your lips are sore or chaped or dry..

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Do u no what you do at prom? I heard something about prom that theres a grand march. What is that? Do u no what goes on during the dance? Like is there alot of fast dancing? or mostly slow dancing?

At a prom you dance! I dont no what a grand march is but i think its were everyone does the same thing. most people have learned then dance if you dont know it sit it out. There is both slow and fast a mixture.

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ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!

People will get bored of it, If they both to ask again just say its ur buisness and its got nothing to do with you. Just keep out of other peoples way, and then they will get bored of asking you questions day in day out.

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ok, this is weird, i know, but i am going out with this guy who i really like and we just started going out like 3 days ago and i only see him in the halls because he's a grade younger than me. should I hug him first or let HIM hug me... or wave to him.. ugh, i just don't want to embarress myself.. please help!
~morgan

Hug him go on why not! there isnt anything wrong with it. its a friendly way of saying hi.

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My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?

Dont tell him that you over heard because he will think you was eves dropping on them two. Just wait until he brings it up. Mabe drop a few hints say that just because hes got a girlfriend is it going to affect your friendship with him, Stuff like that.

luv roxie
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