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Hey, I'm Samm and I'm 15-year-old freshman at Downingtown East High School. I've got a pretty average teenage life, except I'm in no way your average person. I doubt you'll ever meet someone exactly like me.



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im really lazy i hardly ever do anything for school and I want to get A's but i get stressed out when i do my work.

One hour of homework, ten minutes doing whatever. One hour of homework, ten minutes of whatever. Repeat until your homework is finished, and then the rest of the night is yours! Good luck

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13/f ~ misused and abused ~ im a screw up ~ im a freak a goth a punk a emo ~ i have only 3 friends that i love so much but were not that close ~ 2 girls and a guy ~ were very mixed personalities ~ i very depressed group ~ we go to a fucked up catholic school ~ i never try to get in trouble im not even the kind of person to talk out ~ every1 hates us even the teachers and kids ~ in catholic schools you can have no personality no colored anything or even peirced ~ im unwanted at school and at home ~ im not gunna see a phsycycatrist psycoligist or watever ~ i can never show emotion ive never cried when something happened or someone died ~ im used to it ~ theres about a funeral i go to every week ~ no tears when even my sib died ~ i have a very cold dark heart ~ unwanted everywhere ~ thats my life story i wana change ~ i will not try adoption or police or anyone like that ~ i only will use advice ~ i need advice

I agree with the girl before me. Really, life does suck sometimes. But if you try really hard to change things instead of complaining about them, lots of things work in your favor. Try to brighten up. Life may not always be perfect, but shortly it'll all work out if you put some effort into it.

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Ok im 13 and im in 8th grade..and im already tired of school. Ok? Like i have a lot of friends i just dont like people and all the drama with my friends so it takes all of me to get up in the morning and go to school. Then like the teachers are ok and all but they just put too much pressure on me and i teach myself better than they teach me. So i want to be homeschooled for highschool...my sister said she would do it i mean she works at home anyway. But my dad doesnt think its such a very good idea because then i may not get into a good college but i dont know if i want to go to college...i really desperately need help.. should i stick it out and try for college or just be homeschooled what would you do? Also im pretty much inlove with this guy actually im fully inlove with this guy and we have our whole lives planned together. So we want to get married as soon as I graduate because he's joining the marines and like thats another thing... i was gonna live on base with him... so i dont kno what to do. I dont know if i want college and i dont know if i was to be homeschooled... i'm really thinking about it but then like i dont kno im just so confused can anyone help??
Sorry if this is confusing i just kinda wrote what i was thinking and my toughts are all jambled right now...please help!
Kayte

It's winter. It's tiring. It's boring. It's school. But, hey, there are going to be tons of boring and tiring things in your life that you aren't going to be able to pull yourself out of. Why not go to college!? I mean, you want to make a living for yourself, don't you? And as for this boy, you don't know if you're going to marry him.. that's such a long time from now! I think that right now you need to live in the today, not the future. Take things one at a time. For now, stay in school, keep your head up high, and continue dating this boy. But making big huge plans for your future could be bad, because if things go wrong, you won't know what to do. Tomorrow is a gift. Concentrate on today and live it to the fullest.

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What would a 14-15 year old girl think if they saw the guys cock jus the shape of it from your shorts, cause theyre basketball shorts. Would they think its gross, hot!, orweird ?

I'm fourteen, and I would think you were kinda gross just walking around with what looks like a boner. Not hott.

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ok im 13 and a female

this guy at school and i have gone out 4 times and just today he told me he really likes me still and we even madeout today but i have a boyfriend and hes got a girlfriend what should we do? should i tell him if he dumps his girlfriend then ill dump my boyfriend then we can go out? thx for helping!
**sleepiesheep**

First of all, to put it plainly, he was just completely unfaithful to his girlfriend, so what makes you think that he won't be unfaithful to you? "Oh, but he really likes me." Yeah, who knows if he'll "really like" someone while you two are dating? If I were you, I'd break up with your boyfriend, but don't go out with this scum bag that made out with you. Neither you or him deserve a relationship right now.

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Ok, here's the deal:

In middle school, I got teased by these two boys on my bus. They'd yell at me from the back of the bus. So embarressing.

Anyways, they went off to high school when I went into the 8th grade, but now that I'm in the high school with them [I'm a freshmen, they're sophomores], I think they're going to start bothering me again!
What can I do/say to them to make them stop [if they try lol]


Mucho thanks

Chances are.. they'll probably get over that immature phase. But there are some guys that are total idiots that just.. don't ever get past that phase until they want some booty. Anyway. Make sure you're always walking with a friend in the hall to your classes, and when those boys make fun of you, simply give them looks that make you look uninterested by their rude and stupid remarks. Roll your eyes and let them know you're past being an immature middle schooler.. ask them when THEY will catch up with times too.

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ive liked two guys this year... and so the first guy... well he kinda just didnt like me.. and i had friends ask around and stuff... but... then i started liking dan. he was totally different... and hes cute and nice and sweet. nobodys asked me out this year... except justin check :( and hes a loser-freak! so i had my friend ask around... but he also doesnt like me. I feel so stupid. like... a ton of people have boyfriends... and all i have is me. well... and also a TON of people have had at least one true boyfriend.... but i have had NOTHING. am i doomed to being boyfriendless? cause right now.. i really want to give up and just like... die. cause i am hopeless.

I wish you people would stop saying you want to die. WORK THROUGH YOUR FREAKING PROBLEMS! I'll help you through them just STOP SAYING YOU WANT TO DIE. Boys, believe it or not, are not everything. Tons of people never even get married!

You'll get a boyfriend sooner or later. Just flirt or whatever.. find the right guy.

Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!

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14 female (sry if its confusing)

1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me

Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high)

You've been broken up, you're friends don't approve of him, he hangs out with people you don't like, he doesn't want to talk to you...

MOVE ON! I'm sorry darling, but this dude isn't for you.

Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!

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