Heya* I'm 13 F. Me and this boy started dating a week ago. And I really like him. I have never felt like this before. He is very loving abd caring. He doesn't want stuff like blow jobs or sex or stuff that makes me get naked. I want to know how to act when I meet him the firt time? Should I hug kiss what should I do???? Oh and he is 14.
You started dating a week ago, & your in love? No... ._.
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My sink isn't bad at all compared to some people, but I do have a few pimples and I wish my skin was clearer. I feel like everyone stares at one of my zits when I talk to them. I'm 13 and a girl so it's cause of my age I get them but not all of my friends have pimples. How can I get clear skin, quickly and easily. Easy facials, soaps, creams, home concoctions. Anything! And I do wash my face with a special skin product but I guess it's not working! Please help :)
There's this thing you can try, with coffee grounds, olive oil and lemon juice.. I tried it..without the lemon juice..but replaced it with lime juice..it felt good..kinda made my face feel kinda oily since the olive oil..but just make sure you was it off!
I use Neutrogina Deep clean, and it works pretty well..but not every cleanser works..in a few days..it takes awhile. Also, Cetaphil is pretty good..they sell it at wal marts, and drug stores.
:3 I hope I helped!
-Emily.
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my lifes going down hill, i failed 2 subjects in school, i need to take summer school, i havent passed my sats because my dad refuses to give me math classes, i dont know why, and my boyfriend and i are in a REALY BAD patch in our relationship, my life out of ABSOLUTY NOWHERE, is messing up, any words of ease? =/ because i kinda feel horrible.
All I can say, is do your best in summer school get all your work done in there, (maybe mention something about your SAT's?) so you can get out of there quicker.
My boyfriend is in summer school and he does all his stuff on computer, so you should get things done soon..I don't know if your doing it on a computer or not..but just try your hardest and ask for help if your stuck.
For your boy friend, try to talk with him figure out what is messing you guy's up..if he's willing to talk it out..you guys can get threw it.
Don't worry, things will work themselves out..
I hope I helped!
Emily
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i have a story and a question- so here's the thing... i sent my former teacher two letters of appreciation, then she sent me back a thankyou letter. then, because i was so excited to get a letter from her, i sent her another letter saying thanks for replying and congrats on her new baby that she mentioned in her letter. she didn't respond, so i sent her another letter talking about random stuff and questions so she would have to reply back. when several months passed, i finally figured out that a possible reason for her not responding to my letters was that she didn't want to talk anymore. so, finally, i sent her another letter apoligizing and explaining why i kept sending her letters and how i really just wanted to talk to her and sorry for any inconvenience. so my question is do you think she's mad at me? i feel so embarrassed and there's no way for me to talk to her because she moved and even if i did have her number, i wouldn't call her or show up at her house like a stalker... this is humiliating. do you think i overdid it by sending the apology? do you think she appreciated the apology(that is if she was annoyed with the other letters- which by the way, were not anything bad) she knows me by the way, she knows i'm a good kid. she said it herself in the letter that sent me. what's your opinion? thanks!!=]]
I think she appreciated the first few letters, but the letter about her new baby could of been a little much, but don't be embarrassed. She probably doesn't feel odded out by it, shes probably just busy. Just don't write her another letter, unless she contacts you first. If she knows your a good kid, she won't be mad at you for it..
Hope I helped!
Emily
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i was never really a slut. i was expierenced but never slutty- then i went from 0-65 in so short and started being rally slutty and now everyone hates me. i dont know what to do. im so upset at myself and i dont know why i do these things even.
how do i stop?
how do i change? and make people stop talking.
Well, to start off people see you as what you make them see you as, so if you have slept with diffrent guys, and your not in a relationship with them or if you use guys for your satisfaction that makes you seem like one. I know girls who "seem" slutty when there not.
Don't be upset over this, just take a deep breath and relax. It shouldn't matter if people dislike you, do you still have close friends who care about you? If you do that means, not everyone hates you. Plus people start rumors and start things, so you don't need everyone loving you, being liked isn't a important thing. If you have close friends who care about you, thats all that should matter.
Just start over, anyone can. Don't do anything with any guy unless you feel like you love this person, most girls classified as "slut", or "whore" are girls who don't realize that guys have feelings.
If you do things like that because you feel unloved, stop everything and realize that letting guys use you, doesn't do anything for you. You don't gain confidence, it makes you feel worse, it makes people think your easy, when your not. Just think before you act, people always say this, but its's the best thing you can do, like I said don't do anything pyshical or even just kissing with someone unless your in a relationship with them and you truly care about them.
I hope I helped,
Emily
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im, rissa i am in the seventh grade and i am 13 i like this boy and i know for sure he likes me. But i am sort of shy when it comes to that sort of thing i mean. I have only had one bf ever. another problem is that this gurl that i used to be friends with just broke up with him. and i really am not sure if i am falling head over heels for him or if i just wanna be wih him because i know he liks me. Yet another problem i went out with his cousin and he lied and broke us up because he wants to be with me. i like jus forced myself to get over him and now i rite here again. And i know that we will be a great couple but i just am confused. i have feelings for him but i can't affor for my heart to be broken
Thanks for asking me a question ;p Well go with what your feeling you know? I don't think it was right for him to break his cousin and you up. Very self fish of him. :/ If you really care about him and you like him, you should give him a chanse..listen to your heart..and your first instincts there usually right you know. Just be carefull you know.
I hope I helped,
Emily
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I like this kid and I feel like he likes me but I've never had a boyfriend so I could be wrong. When I walked in the cafeteria the first few weeks of the second quarter he looked at me until I walked to my table which was behind him, so I would break the stare. I feel like he looks at me a lot when he sees me. My friend and I stay after to work on a project for a class we have together and he would come into the library and she said he was looking at me the whole time but I don't know if he was or not because he was clear across the Library. He's supposedly a very outgoing guy, he has a lot of friends that are girls. Do you think he's kinda liking me or at least thinking I'm attractive? If you think so why won't he talk to me if he's so outgoing? Thanks!
Its a good chance that he might like you XD Looking and making eye contact is a really good thing. You can't really tell if he thinks your attractive or not..if you don't really ask him. Just smile, and look back at him. Welcome him maybe he is to shy to talk to you because he likes you? A lot of guys I know are like that. XD I say talk to him simply say hi. Or write him a note! Don't worry over it..just take things slowly XD
I hope I helped
Emily
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There is this guy I have my eye on. I'm in 7th grade. Some what pretty. We talk and stuff and mess around. But he is going out with my best friend!!! So I know this is going to sound soo stuck up but is there anyway I can get him to like me, because i dont think she is good for him. We were doing a school performance and him and i were backstage hanging out and it was dark and he reached over and held my hand and scooted closer. and asked if i had a bf. I thought he liked me... what should i do???
Please Don't do anything stupid, for two reasons. One you will have a bad rep as a "backstabber." Two You probably will lose your best friend by doing things like that. Do you want to lose your friend? I have been backstabbed like that before, it's not fun..or fair. He chose her ..not you. He might have feelings for you..So what you don't think there right for each other..maybe they won't but let them break up on there time. Don't try anything because I gurantee something bad will happen. Just be his friend.
Hope I helped
Emily
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Female,13.Hey , umm I like this guy and I flirted with him and he flirted back, but when I asked him out he wasnt single!!!! So I was crushed. Then next semester, he still wasn't single and he started flirting with my play sister and his play brother started flirting with me so then a few months after that, my new crush asked my play sister out and said yes. Now she isn't single, im single, my ex crushes arnt single, and im the only one ,and another one of my play sisters in the clique, are single. So should I be jealous of them who have bf's and gf's?
No you shouldn't be jealous of them ;p You can't help it if guys aren't available or aren't interested yet. It's fun to be single! You can be free and you don't have to worry about the issues that arise in relationships. Don't worry about it the guy will come to you you know? You can't always fine them on your own...they have to find you. XD Just don't worry about it and don't concentrate on "I don't have a bf, but everyone else does." That will just only bring you down. Just relax and don't worry about it.
Hope I helped!
Emily
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So i used to like this guy since the beginning of the school year...five months later he found out from one of my friends that i liked him...we started talking and then ended up haning out...he doesn't drive so one of his friends was going to drive us to the movies....it was me, him, and a whole bunch of his other friends all squeezing in one car....we ended up going to one of his friend's houses and then all his friends left to go pick up their other friend...i didn't want to stay at the house alone with him because the whole time i was thinking...oh my gosh...i feel set up, i feel like they are are going to make up lies about the whole situation so we should have never stayed.....while we were at the house, we talked...and he ended up wanting to do stuff/get down...but i told him i'm not that type of girl that i have to get to know him....so we ended up just kissing/making out....a while later he decided that since i wasn't down for anything he was going to call his friend to come and get us....so they all came back...and they thought we had done something but we didn't do anything....the next day i started hearing all kinds of rumors that he had spread that he and i had gotten down and i had given him head!!! oh my gosh i was freaking out...but i decided to keep calm and just ignore it.....i knew he was just saying all that stuff to look cool.....so now a month later.....i hear more rumors that he is still talking about it saying that i was in love with him and the same things about us getting down...it really hurts me, and i have dealt and ignored with it long enough......so i feel like it time that i confront him about it....if you guys have any advice about the situation please tell me because i am so desperate to know what you guys think...i know the whole thing is my fault...i should have never agreed to go to his friends house and let them leave us there because anyone would think we were doing stuff...and i know no matter how hard i try people will keep thinking that..even though nothing happend....it just hurts to be called a slut, which is something i know i am not...i just don't know how to deal with this so whatever advice you guys might have thank you so much...sorry if this was long
First of all I would like to say, that I'm sorry this guy did all of this to you..you don't deserve this treatment at all..and this guy is very pathtic and imature. I think that confronting him would be the best. Tell him you had enough, and your done with him. Yes, it won't stop anything that happend..and your reputation..is pretty much messed up but if people see you confront him...they may believe you. The most important thing is that you know your not like that, and you KNOW your not a slut and you respect yourself..it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks. I hope I helped? >.<
good luck :)
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someone that I've been trying to impress for the longest time and I finally got him to talk to me the other day. There's all these rumors about him having sex with girls though and were only 15. And he even asked me for naked pictures. I finally sent 1. And now I regret it and I'm scared he might show someone, or it might get leaked out somehow. What do I do?
I have been in the same situation..and i know what you mean, and feel. I feel horrible about it..now..I don't do that anymore. It's illegal and..if you did do that u have to make sure you can trust that person. I just knew one of my friends had to change schools because she sent nude pictures to a guy..that was a total perv..his name was trevor. The person that pressured me into it his name was Jimmy..i feel for you..and its ok remmeber everyone makes mistakes. :) im sorry to say but there isn't much u can do..and thts wat hurts the most. ;/ Hopefully he won't show anyone. i hoped i helped..if want to ask me anything..just message my inbox XD
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Ummm I'm 15 f and I have a bf and he wants to know when I'm going to kiss him and I told him he has to earn it first...I dont know why I told him that I guess its because I'm shy and I didnt know what else to say at the time but now he wants to know how can he earn it and to tell the truth I'm kinda nervous because if we do kiss it will be my first kiss but what do I tell him??? And where do I kiss him??? and how do I kiss him??? sorry if some of these questions sound dumb but I need to know.
hey
well my first kiss just happened recently.
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i have a crush on this boy in the year above me an he knows. whenever i see him around school he always looks at me but then when me or my freind turns and looks back at him he looks away quickly like as if he doesnt wont us to see he is looking at me. so what i was thinking was asking him out, but theres a problem he already has a girlfriend. i have liked him for ages but it doesnt seem to be getting me anywere with him so should i just give up on him and move on or should i wait till him and his girlfriend breake up. because i dont wont to give up on him if he likes me. im just so confused any help please ? :P
Hey there:o
Haha I was in this situation before. Well, okay. You can never really tell what it means when a guy looks at you. It has many reasons. haha The guy i liked did that to me all the time. We never got together though? Sometimes it seemed like he was into me. I still don't know, if he had any interest in me haha well i don't care i have a bf. hha Ok, there could be a chance of him liking you. (yay. but wait) He has a damn GF! damn:/ hah Wait a couple days and see if it occurs more often in a day. If it does, have a friend of yours ( a bestie preferably) make sure they are friends first! Ask her to ask him why he's been looking, when he has a gf? His reaction will give you a slight hint. If he blushes? GOOD sign, that could mean he likes you. If, he comes up with a dumb excuse that could be a sign that he likes you or he feels bad for looking when he has a gf. Make sure you don't cause trouble between him and his gf, that could ruin a lot of things. Be careful and don't push anything and don't seem like a stalker haha jk Good luck, and if it doesn't work on, move onn and find someone else. There's plenty of cuties that will be there for ya! haha
Hope i helped!
peace&love
Emily-Faith42-
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so i like this boy in the year above me in school an he knows i like him but he doesnt no that i love him because i do love him. i really wont to tell him how i feel about him but im scared that he will just laugh an tell all his friends an they will just laugh at me as well. i thiguh about maybe tellin him on msn because i could mever do it face to face, but i just really dont no what to do im scared. please hellp me :'(
Hi there
Well lets see. Do you really know this guy? Have you spent time with him, talked to him? You can't really love someone without knowing him first. You do like him, i can see that but i don't think you love him.If, you feel it in your heart that you REALLY do love him. Give it a try, and if it doesnt go your way its alright. See, I've been here before and i told him on my space that i loved him and it didn't work out for me. Seriously he was in a grade older to. So, i think you should tell him in person your feelings for him. I know it seems hard but it shows him how brave you are, and that you seriously mean it when you say it. Oh, and when this happened he didn't laugh at me or tell his friends. He was respectful towards me. Maybe the same for you? Don't worry if he does, he's NOT worth it if he makes fun of you.. and if he lets others do it to. If it doesn't work out, don't worry you
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im 15/m
this is embarassing to talk about.
im a virgin, which is not a problem. i have had this thing for like 3 years now, i get really horny, like every single day of my life.
i just transferred to a new high school as a junior and the girls there are amazingly hot and sexy. they always show their legs, ass, and boobs, and ugh, like i can never concentrate on school work because there is 6 hours of school a day and im constantly surrounded by HOT girls showing skin everywhere.... i dont know if other guys have this problem.
when i get home i can stop thinking about it..like i get so caught up and horny that i dont know what to do, and lately it started to get kinda serious.
i dont have girlfriends very often, i have a few a year, when i have a gf, i feel great. i never think about horniness or anything, but thats RARE. I feel like i dont want this to stop, but what do i do????? please help me.
Well you can't really help feeling that way.Girls now a days dress way to revealing , I don't dress like that though.Try, keeping your mind on your school work hun, and try not to think about them. Don't pay any attention to them. It will be hard but you can do it!
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help!! i want to talk to my crush but whenever i see him i get all nervous and scared how do i work up the nerve to approach him? and what do i talk about when i do talk to him?
thnks so much im so desperate for advice
Hi!!
Okay...I absolutely had the same feeling for the guy I really liked. What, I did...I said hi to him randomly....when I was with my friends and we were acting real silly. Like being with my friends they gave me a lot of courage to talk to him. So, when he walked by ...I said hi... and he smiled at me. So.. if you like... get a couple of your friends...and just randomly go by him in the hallway ( or if he passes u first) Say , hi to him!! That's what I did...and I felt so proud of myself afterword. After, I did ..I talked to him more often. Also...if you want to do it by yourself... it will make you feel even more proud and confident . Take a deep breath...make sure your tummies relaxed... maybe drink some water...( water helps with a shaky tummy) ... walk up to him and say hello...hi...whatever. Make sure your calm and relaxed. That might be hard but...guys like a confident girls. I really hoped I helped and .... GOOD LUCK!!!
-Faith42 :)
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ok well here it goes..
last year i liked this guy, he liked my friend and i got them together. they didn't talk much and broke up. i still liked him. he like one of my other friends and i helped them get together. they broke up in the summer of last year.
he supposedly did like me last year at some point at least people said they thought he did because he supposedly was alway "flirting" with me.
i still like him and we havent talked like at all this year and we used to always be laughing and talking
i dont think he could or would ever like me but people said they thought he did and he is like not popular or anything. i hang out with some popular people but im not popular or like one of the extreme pretty girls.
i just want to know what i should do.
should i ask him to hang out this summer or should i just wait to see what next year brings... help!
if i should say something in his year book what should i write?
-ilovepink 14 female 8th grader
Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help !
I think you should ask him to hang out because that
can show him that you like him as a friend. If, you
do hangout with him during the summer, if he did
like you, he can start liking you more and maybe
just maybe ask you out! I think you should say
this if you write something ;
"Have a great summer , (if you guys are friends you
can say) love , your friend (your name ) I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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