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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
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I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a crush on my BF and she is trying to impress him. Should I do something about it? It is bothering me a lot. I didn't ask my bf about the girl yet. Should I ask him? How can I ask him? or should I just ignore it?
BTW we don't share our couple picture online or post anything about our relationship online. As me and my BF both are very private person. Our close friends and family members know about our relationship. But we don't showoff online.
Firstly I will say that a woman and her intuition is a great thing and there are chances it is wrong but there are also good reasons to pay heed to it too. The thing is there really is no way to know without actually asking him what the deal with her is. She might be a friend who is being supportive. Or it could be a fan who saw him singing somewhere and added him as a fan. Your relationship has lasted as long as it has because of the mutual trust you have for each other and I suspect you have always been open with each other if something is bothering you so perhaps it might be worth addressing it and casually asking him about her. It could just be innocent flirting where she has no idea he has a gf. There are so many positive and negative ways to look at this situation and we could go in an endless circle of theories but as you've expressed how much this is bothering you, I think it just seems fair to speak to him about it and bring her up casually and ask him about her. I would say ignore it as at this point it may not be worth really saying anything but it is clearly bothering you and I doubt you would be able to ignore it (it will just play on your mind) and with the trust you and your bf have - I would think he would welcome you talking to him about it just to ease your mind. I would think if the situation was reversed he would also be able to feel like he could come to you and just express his worry and talk to you about it.
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I am sorry it took so long to say THANK YOU! I forgot. :( you were right it turned out to be nothing.
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