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So I set up a date with a lady yesterday i said Starbucks 8.30 pm waiting for the counteroffer waiting waiting she then goes I am going to work out tomorrow if I dont I will feel bad put my shoes into her I use to workout a lot and say if I dont work out I'd fell bad too I use to fell that way her action seems to be telli the trueth then she goes that's a good time to go ill text you tomorrow my guts tells me she's not going bc there was no counteroffer rigth now she texted me back around 710pm I quote Hey!its Laura.i won't be able to make it to Starbucks today.I forgot that after work I needed to stay for meeting hmmmmm say if she texted me around 8.15 or 830 that would be a different story but she gave me an hour to think about her action I am gonna make her wait and text back no worry Starbucks or teavana 9 oclock Tuesday you pick a place

Hey there!

My sincere advice would be to give her the benefit of the doubt. It's an annoying situation, but you're only gonna hurt yourself by jumping to conclusions this quickly.

I hate when people cancel plans last minute, but I do it too sometimes, and I realize that I hate doing it to people, but stuff comes up sometimes, and it's not up to me.

At least she was nice enough to let you know she couldn't make it. The only time I'd get pissed is if someone makes plans and simply never shows up.

For your own good, give her the benefit of the doubt. I'm the type of person to judge people too quickly, and I see more and more how it is only hurting me. Once you get to know her better, and she does continuously bail on you, that's when it becomes a problem.

I'm not going to say that your frustration is not legitimate, because yes, this is a very frustrating situation.

Good luck!

xoxo
~alexisgirlie

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(Rating: 5) see but there was no counteroffer i understand things happen but how irresponsible of her too not know you have a meeting i didn't text or call her back i am not desperate i have self control say if she was like sorry i couldn't make but hey are you available tuesday 8 pm easy but there wasn't so that means low interest i think what she's traying to do is test or to see what kinda man i am or she's about to brake up with her boyfriend and she's lining up the real man whenever i talk to her she never mention about a boyfriend but there lots of nigth that i don't get to see her car neighbor we stay in an apartment that looks like a hotel but its an apartment broken dates flakey thats an ultimate sin can you imagine james bond him telling a lady he can't make it on a date hell no

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