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hi! im 19 years of age and i am a girl.I truly love my boyfriend more than anything else in this world.i love spending time with him.i spend most of my time everyday with him.we are always together.is it healthy to spend too much time with your boyfriend making love and etc? should I give him some space?
Hey there!
I very much agree with the two previous answers. But also, you should have a life outside of the relationship. It sounds like this is a new relationship, so it's normal for two new lovers to always want to spend time together. But I honestly don't think it's healthy to always be together. For now, it's fine, but it doesn't last. Eventually you will both need to spend some hours of the day apart, living your own lives. Make sure to surround yourself with friends! Friends are important. To me they are actually more important than romantic relationships. That's just me. It's also cool to be able to talk about your relationship with your friends. Girlfriends are important. So if you have girlfriends, make sure to hang out with them! Have a girls night out and talk about your guys. You can brag and have fun! Make sure you surround yourselves with friends. I'm also 19. I'm an adult and I have a lot of responsibilities now like school and my career. If you have an amazing relationship, that is the best addition to your life. But it shouldn't be your entire life. You need space too. Your need your own life too, just like he needs his. From what I've gathered, he is the BEST thing that has happened to you. He enhances your life. But he shouldn't BE YOUR LIFE.
I know from experience that after a while, even if it's not right now, and it might really be months and months, but you might start feeling suffocated. So I don't think it's healthy in the long run to spend all your time together AT ALL!
Should you give him some space? Talk to him about it. How much space he needs, and also how he feels about you two always being together.
To sum it up: you really need to have a life outside of the relationship if it's gonna last. If this is a new relationship, it's completely normal to ALWAYS wanna be together. You two should definitely talk about it! I think you'll feel better and have your answers.
Good luck! I wish you all the best always!
xoxo
~alexisgirlie
(Rating: 5) Thanks 4 ur advice.