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I'm an 29 year old guy.I'll always do my best to give well considered and sincere advice - give me your best shot. P.S. Don't be afraid to ask me private questions, I rarely spend a lot of time answering non-private questions.
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so basically im having trouble deciding if i should break up with my byfriend he dosnt message me first we barley hang out and when we do we dont really talk we like kiss in stuff i dont know what to do should i stay and see where things go or dump him because honestly i dont feel like we are gonna last
If it's bad, break up. If it's not bad, then give it a little time.
In terms of messaging, match his pace. If he doesn't message you, don't go out of your way for him. Maybe he's busy, or maybe he's just not that into you (sorry if that's the case).
Only doing stuff like kissing doesn't sound right. There's a balance between no kissing, and just kissing, with a sweetspot in the middle, where you talk, and date, and do things together that aren't just kissing. It doesn't sound like you have that balance right just yet.
Look up some date ideas, and plan out some dates. If he doesn't seem interested in the date, in you, or anything but kissing and touching, then that's what he values about you. If that really is all the value you have to him, get rid of him fast.
Hopefully by going on some dates and trying to cool things down a little, you'll develop something stronger.
Best of luck - Silentone
(Rating: 5) thank you! the messaging thing is because he hates texting he always calls me but he never texts me first. he says most guys hate texting so i asked my friends and brothers and they ALL hate texting! but i love texting so i am gonna dump him if he wont do what i want cuz i am the girl and he needs to make me feel special so it doesn't matter if he hates it or not he needs to make me happy right?