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Q: I am in a fight with two of my best friends.They judge me a lot.I feel like their dog at times.They don't like the fact that I had 11 boyfriends and they were very harsh on me due to that reason.We are friends for six years and now we don't talk.It's almost a month that we don't talk properly.they are also leaving the country after 2 months and we are broken.I tried apologizing and instead I got harsh behavior from them so I don't apologize anymore.I mean , they are the ones who should apologize to me , right?All these times I was so busy keeping them happy that I forgot my happiness.They are my friends and therefor they are supposed to me supportive , instead they judge me.Now what?
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Friends do not judge their friends. Period. Clearly, these two girls are not best friend material, and are in no position to even be considered friends. You say you feel like you're their dog at times. That alone gives me reason to believe that they mistreat you. The fact that they cannot even accept an apology means that they're just mean, nasty girls. Everyone deserves to have GOOD friends in their lives. Good friends are there to support you, laugh with you, have fun with you, and make you feel good. Sure, we all get into disagreements every now and then, but when fighting becomes the norm, and you feel like you're constantly being insulted and belittled, then the "friendship" is definitely not healthy. I have walked away from people who talked down to me, flaked on me, mistreated me, etc., because I realized THEY DON'T DESERVE ME. You deserve to have good friends in your life. You know what? Good thing they're leaving the country. They can stay wherever they're going, and out of your life. Find friends who like you for who you are and support you. Whatever it takes-- socialize with different people, go to events, meetup.com, whatever it takes. Don't settle for less than you deserve.
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It was really hard, but you were right. I did like you said and I am happy now! THANKS!
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I am here to give honest advice, when I feel I have something to contribute. I try to be as empathetic and understanding as I can, as I know that the way something is said is as important as the message itself.
I usually advise on love/relationships, friendship and family issues, nutrition, and health (mental and physical). If I feel I can help out, there's not a whole lot I am unwilling to answer. Ask away!
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Gender: Female Location: Los Angeles Age: 35 Member Since: December 9, 2006 Answers: 541 Last Update: November 25, 2016 Visitors: 51150
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