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Hello so I brok up with my bf because I thought I needed to focus on my education, I stopped liking him and now were friends but no he's dating my close friend and I dont why but I feel this were swollen feeling in my heart is this normal (link)
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This is quite common and quite normal. Generally speaking, people have a fear of being replaced, left out. Just because romantic feelings aren't doesn't mean you're safe from the feeling that you're left out.
If this all happened relatively quickly, despite the fact that you broke up with him, there hasn't been much time apart, so there hasn't been enough time to gain a new perspective and closure.
It's normal and it'll take some time to get over, but I'm certain you will. I suggest trying to distract yourself with school, work, hobbies, going out with friends, whatever you feel like doing. If that doesn't work, try to make sure your feelings are known. It might help to talk to your friend about how you feel.
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