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Hi, I'm Brittney, I'm a junior in college. don't ever feel hesitant to ask me a question, I will never judge you. Be completely honest and I will give you the best answer I can give, 100% of the time. A fun fact about me- I'm a triplet!

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I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. I love him to death but I have some concerns. He lies a lot not just to me but to everyone. I will find out stuff he hasn't told me through mutual friends. And because of his lying he is losing a lot of friends. Another concern is that my family and friends are not fans. They all say he is a nice guy but I could do better. My dad refuses to even meet him. He is 25 and going back to school the end of this month and just not seems to be getting his shit together. He hasn't had a car for months and it is always on me to pick him up and drive places. If the roles were reversed he would do the same for me but my parents are not ok with the current situation. When I am with my friends I want to break up with him but when I am with him I can't imagine myself without him. I am so 50/50 with this relationship. I don't want to leave him but I feel that it has to be done. Anyone have any advice or input? Does it seem like I am doing it for the better of me or to please family/friends? Should I see if anything changes? So stuck.

I was in a similar situation, first off you have to ask yourself, is he holding me back? From your post I can guarantee you that answer is yes. From my experience, I always follow my motto.. Sometimes it takes someone to treat you the way you deserve to be treated, for you to realize what you had wasn't what you deserve. A breakup will always sting no matter what, but I promise you will look back on your relationship once it's over and be so happy that you finally ended it. For me, I lost friends over a stupid guy, it is so not worth it at all. And when you find a guy that your family really loves, you will feel 10000% happier it's like floating on cloud 9. It's an emotional process, but you are only dropping a weight that has been holding you down. I could go on and on for paragraphs about this, but I don't want to overkill it. You seem like a very bright and sweet person, by just reading your question I can tell you that you deserve better. I hope I've helped, like I said it's never an easy process as its extremely emotional, but you will be happy in the long run. If you need to talk just inbox me, everything will turn out fine don't worry!

Just as a side note, I felt the 50/50 feeling too, what I realize now is that the fact that you are already 50% sure you should break up with him, subliminally you know what is best for you.

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(Rating: 5) this situation is really tough but words of encouragement are always nice :) thank you
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