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Hey I'm Francesca!
I know I havent been through everything, but I have had my share, and I would be glad to help you!
Ever broken any bones? How about rules?

What are the 3 things about you that you wouldn't want me to know?
1) I fall in love too fast 2) I HATE my body 3) I hide everything I feel
What is your favorite food color?
Purple
Do you sleep thru thunders and storms?
No, i'm a very light sleeper.
Are you a dog or a cat person, or rather prefer a comodo dragon?
i love cats, but I have a dog cause i'm allergic to cats.
What is the single feature people compliment about you the most?
My legs
Are you ALSO scared of spiders?
I don't like them.
What is your biggest fear, except for spiders?
Death, afterlife.
Name your most favorite part of day?
Daytime
Ever had an imaginary friend as a child?
Yes, her name was Masa
Ever been in an accident?
I have been in a car accident.
Have you ever stolen anything from a store or from someone?
I stole lotion from my grandma...
What are your turn on's and turn offs?
on's: attractive, loves God
off's: rude, having a "big head"
Are you a morning person?
I'm a morning and a night person.
What are your most favorite and least favorite foods?
Most: sushi
Least: black olives
Name the one piece of clothing you can't live without.
A bra
Do you have tattoos or piercings? If yes, how many and where are they?
I have a tattoo down my spine that says 'you are the light of the world'
My ears are pierced twice and my cartilage is pierced and my belly button is pierced.
What is/was your least favorite subject in school?
Math
Do you take showers in the morning or at night more?
After I exercise
What are the most important 3 things in your life?
1) God 2) my family 3) my friends

advice

im 20 and he is 22. we have known each other for 6 years and dated on and off. we have been together now for almost a year. we live together now. as of lately though im not "lovey-dovey" i usually don't wanna cuddle or have sex or even kiss. what does this mean? i do love him, but maybe we aren't meant to be. i want to talk to him about this but im afraid he will get upset. what should i do?

I have this same situation with a guy, we are both 20. We have known each other since middle school and we have officially been together for a few years. Recently I just started feeling distant, I was attracted to him but I didn't want to kiss him or have sex anymore with him. At first I started calling him my best friend, to see if he would get the hint; he didn't. I kept avoiding his kisses and everything and eventually he got frustrated and asked why. It was really hard but I told him the truth, and I felt so much better. I was just tired of being with the same guy for so long, and trust me, he wants to know. We had planned to get married and be together forever, I thought he was the one! But now I feel so much better because I know it wasn't right in the end. The best decision is to tell the truth, explain exactly how you feel. I know it's hard to accept but I feel so much better now. It may even be that y'all just need some time apart, maybe moving out for a few months would make you miss him more and then everything would be better again! I suggest trying to distance yourself so you don't make any bad decisions and regret it later. Tell him how you feel!
Good luck.

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much, really great advice.

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