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I need you guys to help me.I have a boyfriend who I love very much;he's my baby and the reason I'm happy everyday. Then,why do I feel attracted to other men as well?Since me and my boyfriend have very good sex.Last week,I was at my best friend's house and when he approached me to hug me,I felt sexually aroused when he pressed his body against mine:( This isn't correct.I know it,but I just don't know how to make it stop.Help?Thanks!! (link)
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This sounds crazy, but my girlfriend and I both went through the same thing and are now in a committed, open relationship. It's certainly not the common solution and is likely frowned upon, but it works for us.
As for your case, I think you need to make a list of priorities and figure out what's most important. Is your boyfriend worth this guilt? It sounds like he is. If not, leave him. If he is, are boundaries well defined? What would make him jealous? What's over the line? If these are well established, then concentrate on not crossing these lines. It'll help with the guilt. Unfortunately, physical attraction isn't a choice. It's something we just have to deal with. Sometimes we can work around it, perhaps by spending less time with the men you are attracted to, but it's still going to be there until attractions naturally change, if they do.
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