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*happy
*employed
*married
*large extended family
*bisexual
*advanced college degree
*no kids (yet)

advice

17/f

The other day I was sitting in a room studying at college, when I noticed an ex from a few years ago sitting outside the room (theres a window) on the computer.
He was telling some other random girl about how eheh wants to break up with his girlfriend of 8months ago oh how it was very pressurized. But he was practically shouting it-you know when its obvious he wants you to know.
Should I tell this girl because basically hes telling everyone else before her and I know how bad that made me feel.

It might be best if you just stay out of this one. It may hurt and you know what this girl is in for, but you don't want to get involved in this. It could turn sour for you. If he's going to break up with her, that's a good thing for her. In this case, it's probably best to just let things go as they will. Intervening could get you stuck in the middle of a situation you want nothing to do with. My advice to you is to avoid the drama. She'll make peace with it just as you have. You can't protect the world and sometimes it's best not to. She'll be okay. If you feel you want to help her, wait until after it's over. It might be nice to know that she's not alone in what she's going through and that someone else has been there too. She might want someone to talk to that's willing to listen. Just don't get involved before then. A relationship is about two people. He's doing the wrong thing by getting other people involved and by butting in, you would be to, at least at this point. It may be painful to stay out of this, but let it run its course. Good luck. :)

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