ask Drewb13



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Hello my name is Andrew. I'm young, but I love to help people. If you have any questions, feel free to ask me and I will try my very best to help.


E-mail: DrewHorton507@gmail.com
Gender: Male
Occupation: Full-Time College Student
Age: 18
Member Since: June 4, 2012
Answers: 249
Last Update: August 20, 2015
Visitors: 16079

Main Categories:
Spirituality
Work/School Relationships
Love Life
View All

Favorite Columnists
DangerNerd
adviceman49
theymos
alexisgirlie
latoline
Xui
Siren_Cytherea
carayotie
ragingsquirrel
David96786
holla13
more...
I have been dealing with drama with a former friend. She is harassing me, stalking me, threatening me with calling the police on me for stuff I didn't do or say to her. She is falsely accused me of things of things I didn't do or say. I have not had any contact with he since May. I have left her alone since May as she wanted nothing to do with me anymore. I have respected her wishes and made no contact on any sites, etc. She changed her email address and all because someone hacked into her account. Not me of course. Ignoring her isn't the answer as she and her friends are spying on me on sites and harassing me. There is one site that won't do anything about the bullying and harassment. I;m tired of it. I have been saving what is going on and I'm tired of being the victim of bullying and harassment. I have left this ex friend alone and she is falsely accusing me of contacting her through various sources which isn't true. I have left her alone. She also promised not to harass and bother me and mention me in her stuff and she lied. She is getting people to harass me and make fun of me. Especially my weight and she once posed as someone she isn't and harassed making up stuff that isn't true. She denied it at first, but confessed to the crime and has since stalked or is getting people to stalk and harass men on different sites. I'm tired of this. and ignoring her just adds fuel to the fire cuz she can do as she pleases. I have a friend who is friends with both me and this person and she is in the middle of this and she is in between this mess and doesn't want part of it. I'm tired of the harassment and stalking and bulling from this person. I am not sure what to do at this point. I have saved everything what this person is doing/saying about me along with her friends who have been stalking, spying and harassing me as well as bullying me. I want this to end. This person threatened with police action and I am innocent and not doing anything wrong and have left the woman alone. I don't get why she can't leave me alone and out of her life and her stuff and why she's harassing and stalking and spying on me. If she's not doing it, she is having someone else do it. I am not sure about filing a report on this person. What should I do?

Kim (link)
Okay. First of all I'm sorry you have to go through this. But let me tell you this first. This girl that is bullying you, SHE CAN NOT DO ANYTHING TO YOU! She has no power. Just because she has people watching you doesn't make her anybody special. If people want to watch you, let watch. As long as they don't put their hands on you, you're fine.
And another thing, you need to tell somebody. STOP KEEPING THIS TO YOURSELF! That's how people go crazy.
You need to realize, OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS DON'T MATTER! What this girl is doing to you is STUPID because she's wasting all of her time and energy on making sure somebody's life is miserable. But don't be angry at her because some kids bully other kids because they're insecure with themselves or they're having some family issues back home. I wish there was more I could do to help.

~Andrew~


Rating: 5
I did tell someone as I told my whole family and they all say especially a relative of mine says to stay away from her completely and not read her stuff period. Ignore her. Unfortunately there isn't much I can do unless she posts a threat in terms of harming me. I was told not to read this chick's stuff anymore. Don't go to her site, etc and she will leave me alone. She's still at it though so don't care what she thinks or does and she's just doing this all to tick me off cuz she knows I get mad easily, but the way she acts and all is cruel. Especially in her stuff about me. Yeah I was told that she has nothing and don't think she has the guts to file a police report. I have proof of her wrong doings incase someone shows up, but I doubt it and she can't prove I am doing all this stuff to her which is so not true. yeah. She is just wasting her time which she should go find something else to be besides bully and harass people and accuse them of stuff they dont do. If I were here, I'd keep what I say about a person private. Not for the public to see which she has. Sadly. Yep. maybe she is having issues and the reson why for her behavior. Who knows. My friends and family who I have told what sh'es doing and all thigns she's a bully and other things. So I am gonna not view her stuff anymore and will continue on not having any contact with her. I made no such contact with her since may. Family things I did, but not true. I don't even have her email, etc cuz she changed it. Dont care to know it or want it either. Sad thing is she tracks ips. For what? I have no idea. Thanks though!




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker