alexisgirlie's advice column

so recently my friend told me shes had sex with two guys one of which was a one night stand. but the thing is is that we're both 13 and thoses guys hadnt even been going out with her. (they were the same age, though) And every guy Ive ever gone out with (4 of them) all went out with me because they were dared to. And my friend makes a point of this all the time. Im not suicidal, im just insecure because i feel like all these people hate me because ive never even hugged a guy let alone had sex with one. i feel so dumb and stupid.

The dumb and stupid one is your friend for having sex at such a young age. At the time it may seem like the cool thing to do, but as she'll get older she'll forever regret it. Don't rush yourself into these things. You're only a child once, so enjoy yourself while you still can, and don't be pressured into sex ever.

Wait until you're older and until the right guy comes along. You'll be glad you waited.

Good luck :)

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