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So, 13/f and I met this dude. 16/m and I haven't really met him offiicially or seen the guy. I just try to imagine him. Lets just say his name is Mike. When I think about his REAL name the thing that comes to mind is blonde hair blue eyes and let the rest fall in place. Well, we talked over the power of the internet and he sounds really nice and harmless. I don't know who he really is or what he looks like we met by chance on this really cool website and happened to hit him up about it. I think I like him, he sounds pretty harmless to me, but that's just the internet, he might be some homeboy trying to get a life. Who knows he might even a 50 perverted year old dude who is lonely and stupid. So, how do I get to bring up the subject of what we look like in a convo while chatting?? Is 3 years older than me way out of my league?? I mean, IDK if he's in a relationship wit someone, but I want to get some ideas. Can you guys give me some please?? Thanks so much.

Don't trust this guy. The chances are, he's not who he says he is. I know lots of cases of people being raped and killed through such meetings. Besides, I don't think you should date a 16 year old.

I was sexually abused a while ago, and I am still suffering awful trauma. Save yourself that awful pain, and get rid of him.

People lie online, and they may seem totally harmless and charming. This guy can be a 30 year old criminal for all you know. Please be careful, for your own sake.

Good luck :)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you, and I'm sorry about your situation. I wasn't also planning to date this "dude" I was just thinking that I might like him, but totally like I said on my story he might be a 5o perverted year old loner, or what yo u said 3o year old criminal. Thanks though. It opens up my eyes to a whole new perspective. :) Sorry if this is long. :P

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