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Okay, I'm 13/f and I have a Best Friend, 12/M and he's my only Best Friend. I know some of you guys might expect I need a girl friend, but I don't. I really don't like having girl friends because it causes drama, and fights and I can't stress myself over that. Anyways, I kind of have this thing where every girl says, "OMG, you're so popular, pretty, you have it all, every guy likes you, and you're so perfect." I know I'm not those things. I don't like hearing those. I mean, sure guys like me even older ones and they all hit on me. I don't appreciate it when they do that especially if they have a girlfriend of their own!! I mean it's very flattering they like me, but I don't know what is it I'm doing to make them hit on me. So, I talked to my Best Friend, and he's dating also, and he hit on me last night. I felt terrible. I don't know what to do. I feel like they are all just using me so they can get something out of me. I know they can't and they never will. A lot of them, have asked me out and I've turned them down. I never really dated, kissed anyone, I never gone beyond the point of hugging. What do you guys think? I love my Best Friend he's like my brother to me. It only seems like they hit on me while they're dating then, the guys dump their girl(s) then ask me out! That's really stupid. I don't know what to do. Please help. (link)
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Tell those guys that you don't like being hit on, then ignore them. Besides, the guys your age are probably starting puberty so it could just be hormones. But I'm sure that eventually, you'll find the right guy. Someone who loves and appreciates you for who you are on the inside as well as the outside.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Thanks Andrew. You're probably right. I have total faith in you that it is true. Thanks for the advice, and I will tell those guys to back off.
-holla13-
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