alexisgirlie's advice column

My name is david and im 16 and im having trouble asking a girl out, but the problem is that she is my best friend, her name is tiana she is also 16, we have been best friends since 3rd grade and now where sophmore's. i recently broke up with my gf about a month ago for cheating and tiana has been helping me deal with it every step of the way, i started noticing that i liked her when i started dreaming about her in my dreams, and now i just cant stop thinking of her, everytime i meet her at school i get butterrflies, i just cant stop thinking of her. i want to ask her out on a date but im scared she might reject and we might stop being best friends. i dont know what to do i wanna be with her but i dont wanna lose her, i dont want to lose my best friend... SHOULD I ASK HER OR LEAVE IT THE WAY IT IS? i dont know what to think.

I think you should try hinting it to her, and see what her reaction is. If you really like her, then give it a shot. The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Be prepared for that.

Not asking her out is definitely playing it safe, but if you have those feelings for her and you don't ask her out, you'll never know what her response could have been. I think it's worth trying.

You can try practicing in front of the mirror, so that you're more confident with what you're gonna say.

I'd like to correct Andrew. David did not cheat on his girlfriend, she cheated on him.

Good luck :)

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(Rating: 5) Lol you always know what to say.. Thanks Alexis!

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