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This boy and I have been friends for quite a while now. We started to text as friends but then it grew on to a flirting level, I started to really like him but when I told him he went really awkward and wouldn't pay attention anymore, he would not reply to my messages. I was being a little obsessive and would not leave him alone, then he turned around and said I do not like you get it in to your mind, we argued and then I appologised and I asked to be friends and he agreed but he is still being awkward through texts when I even try to make conversation. I must admit I have fell in love with him, it feels like he has torn me apart, I don't know what to do. I thought may be friends then it would build back up because he seemed interested before. Can anyone help me on what to do or say? May be text him and say something to make him realise or.. I don't know I am confused and hurt, what should I do? Someone please help I really appreciate it
Hey there,
I can understand how hurt you must feel. It's not nice when you pour your heart out to someone and they respond by shutting you out.
If I were you I would do my best to forget about this guy. He has made it clear he doesn't like you like that,and unfortunately at this point there is nothing more you can do about it. If you continue to send him texts he his just going to ignore you further. You don't wanna come off as desperate. The way he reacted wasn't fair,sure its bound to be awkward for a while but if he was a true friend and cared about your feelings he would make more of an effort to move past it. He dealt with the whole situation in a most insensitive manner. On the other hand you cannot make him have feelings for you as much as you want to. I know how much it sucks I have been in this position before. I would say the ball is in his court now. You have apologized and asked to be friends. I wouldn't text him first anymore let him make the effort.
Do your best to forget about him and move on. Spend time with friends and keep yourself occupied. Whenever you start to think about him do something fun or relaxing to distract yourself. Like listen to music watching a movie or going shopping. I find when I am really stressed I like to bake but that's just me!
Wait for a guy who will truly appreciate you and show you the respect and adoration you deserve. Don't be disheartened there are nice guys out there. Don't let this one set back hold you back. My inbox is always open if you ever need anyone to talk to.
Good luck and much
(Rating: 5) That was the best advice ever! Thank you so much