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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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i'm 13 and i was with this guy around 3 months, the first month at a party we went off together and he fingered me and i gave him a hand job, then after than night mostly everytime we met up we done something. is this bad? he did ask me to have sex with him but i said no. everyone found out about what we done and now people call me a slag-_- am i really that bad??
Hey there,
No I would not call you a slag. You have your own free will at the end of the day,but honestly I wouldn't make a habit out of it. You don't want to get a reputation as the girl who gets off with random guys at parties. Don't feel pressured into doing anything you are not comfortable with. Especially at your age there is sooo much time for all that. Just enjoy being young and carefree.
If I am being completely honest with you it sounds like this guy is just interested in engaging in sexual activity with you.
Every time you have met up you said you have done something. And he asked you to have sex after just 3 months. Do you guys hang out and just be a couple?go to the mall movies etc? or is it purely making out?Be careful and don't let your guard down. But well done for not giving in and saying no.
Don't let guys take advantage of you,find a guy who will treat you with the respect and adoration you deserve.
Good luck and much
(Rating: 5) thank you so much:) best advice i've seen:) we do hang out sometimes but all he really wansa do is make out and i dont but i feel bad saying no:L anyways thankyou so much and i will be having this in mind ;)