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I wanna cut my wrists,and all because my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore,I need help because I know it doesn't make any sense.
People who want to self harm are in really awful pain, but self harm is not the solution. It's really great that you realize that it's not normal and you need help. I congratulate you for being very smart and seeing beneath the pain. It's really painful what you're going through, and I suggest maybe you should have a talk with your boyfriend about this. If he really doesn't love or respect you anymore, than he doesn't deserve to be with a special person like you. You deserve your boyfriend's unwavering love, respect, support, and trust. If any of these is missing, there's something wrong with the relationship. My boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago, and I'm rolling in unbearable pain. I can understand what you feel when your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, but it might not be true. I highly suggest you go get help for your self injurious ideation. Even if everything works out with your boyfriend, you need to learn the DBT skills of how to deal with pain without cutting. You'll be so happy you did. They are skills for life, and once you start applying them in everyday life, you'll be a new person! You'll know how to cope with things from losing $10 to losing a loved one. I'm studying them, and it really helps. Always believe in yourself, and don't let anyone treat you any lower than a queen ever! Because you are one! If you have any further questions about this, you can e-mail me at alexisgirlie@gmail.com. Good luck and feel better soon :)
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