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So i realized that i still like my ex. from a long while ago/ my best friend. It hurts because i know he does not want me, nor will he. I feel like i have a giant whole in my heart.

Yet.. I want him to be happy. I want to be his friend. I don't want to like him. I don't want to feel this way. I even sent him a link for top ten christian dating sites. just so that maybe he will find happyness.

I'm trying to not text him. I'm trying to tell myself he is just my friend. he is just a friend. I don't like him everytime i talk tohim.

Any advice would be very very very much appreciated!

I can relate to your pain, since my boyfriend broke up with me recently. I have this awful pain at the pit of my stomach whenever I think about him. I know though, that if I would see him, I would be so angry that I would slap his face. Post break up emotions are very conflicting and unpredictable. It's totally normal what you are feeling. I sometimes feel okay not being my ex's girlfriend since obviously it wasn't meant to be, but at other times I'm heartbroken and long for him like crazy, and feel as if I lost my soulmate. The pain is really awful. Healmybrokenheart.com has wonderful lessions and tips on how to deal with these emotions, which I find very helpful. They explain and legitimize your feelings in an incredible way, and it's very healing. You can also try to distract yourself whenever you have those thoughts. Good luck and feel better soon :)

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