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Can someone please help me, I have been really depressed for the past couple years, im 16 years old im really poor I have a dad who hits my mom, im 230 pounds ive been joining sports to lose weight( not working) my girlfriend cheats on me. I get into fights, I have hardly no friends, i have an anger problem and i pick fights with my dad. Lately after I found out my gf has been cheating on me, my depression has hit an all time high, I have been alienating my self from everyone for the past month. I had been having really bad suicidle thoughts lately, but I cant get myself to do it. Im not afraid to die, its just thought of how im going to die. Is there an afterlife, im I going to hell if I kill myself, will anybody care?. I just need someone to help me, because I have been driving myself crazy lately and im afraid I might do something ad. Can someone help me?
Your situation is really really unbearable, and I don't blame you for being depressed. I could only imagine myself going crazy if I were in your situation, and I'm really proud of you that you were able to hang in there. A 16 year old should not be dealing with so much pain. No one should. You are a really special guy, and you deserve to live a wonderful life. You do not deserve to die! You are struggling in so many areas, and you shouldn't be dealing with this on your own. You should be out there enjoying your life, and having a dedicated girlfriend. If you're 100% sure your girlfriend is cheating on you, you should break up with her. She doesn't deserve to be with you! You should have the best girl out there, someone who will love and respect you no matter what. You need to get help. You'll be a new person! Please e-mail me at alexisgirlie@gmail.com and I can try to find you people in your area who can help you, and help your mom and dad resolve their conflicts. It is very painful to watch parents fight, but if your dad is hitting your mom, I believe someone needs to step in. Start living again! Don't cut your life short! With the right treatment, you will be happy again! Good luck :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much alexis, you dont even know how much it means to hear that right now, I have been really down. ill sit down with my girl friend and ill talk to her and try to work things out as best I can, if not ill break it off. Thank you so much.