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Boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Lately things are not what they used to be. He doesn't make the effort to do anything for me anymore. He will sometimes drive to my house which is thirteenth minutes away but that's once in a while. We text each other and he will ignore me somewhere in the conversation. I'm so sick of it, but it's only hard because I love him.I think most of us girls like being taken out once in a while, and he doesn't do that anymore. I thInk I should probably break up with him because a part of me feels like he wants to let go of him because he once talked about being trapped. I have weird feelings that he has found someone else. It could just be paranoia but idk. He goes out of his way to make plans with his friends and I come last. It hurts a lot. I honestly don't mind him hanging out with his friends but I think I deserve some time too. I don't know what to do at this point. I was going to wait it out and see how much longer he ignores me and then if he keeps at it talk to him and set him free.

Communication is important in a relationship. Talk to him about it. He should be able to figure out a way to spend time with you and his friends evenly. Sometimes you have to look at it from both perspectives. You said that he doesn't do anything for you anymore. Do you do anything for him? I'm not saying you don't, but maybe he doesn't feel like you do. You should ask him.

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(Rating: 5) You are so right. I can't expect him to do anything unless I don't. He texted me this morning acting like nothing happened. I was working so I didn't see the texts. And then later on in the day he texts me saying to have fun but not too much fun. It's weird. So I did the same thing he did to me the other day and ignored him. He then came to my house and I still haven't written him or called him back. I will do so most likely in the morning.

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