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I love my boyfriend alot but sometimes he wants to move too fast in our relationship if you know what i mean... I dont want to hurt his feelings but i always tell him no when i feel too uncomfortable and then he gets either really upset or mad. I don't know what to do, please help me.
-Takeitslowbabe
I completely disagree with the person before me (Istalio, I think?).
It isn't about hurting his feelings. It is about your feelings and your comfort level. YOUR body.
The relationship goes two ways and you need to tell him that he should be respecting how you feel and your boundaries and that you don't feel ready. Stand your ground and don't let him talk you into anything.
I moved too quickly into something and I loathed myself for a long time because of it.
If you love each other and he respects you, he will understand how you feel and wait.
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Thank you for having a brain. That other "person" told my 12 year old daughter to have sex with a 23 year old man she met online. Thank you for trying to save my little girl.
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