"People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone." - Audrey Hepburn
I came to this site for advice about a man and love. That very question turned my entire world around and I have had my eyes opened to things I never noticed before.
I've stayed here so that I can share the knowledge I do have. I know I'm not changing the world but I do hope that I spark others to open their eyes.
"The only thing to do with good advice is pass it on. It is never any use to oneself." - Oscar Wilde
So, if you learn something from what I say then repeat it to someone else who can use it.
I hope that if you see an answer of mine that you enjoy it will inspire you to go out of your way to give good, solid information. Provide links for further information, detail your responses, encourage people to seek out professionals when it's needed, and stop sugar-coating responses and just say the truth.
I hope that even if you absolutely hate my answer that it'll kick start your brain. Hopefully you'll begin taking your time to respond instead of hurried answers that are useless to an already confused person.
"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on." - Robert Frost
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Today, I had this guy that I like comeover, and I guess I have been having second thoughts already. He fingered me, and ate me out and it's been 5 hours plus, and I am still sore and swollen, and it's never been like that before. Now, I am just sitting here, and I want to cry, I am in a pissy mood, and went off on him. I don't know what to do. Did I make a mistake doing this with him? (link)
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Anything that entails a male that you refer to as "this guy" in the sexual sense is probably a bad move/mistake.
You may be just irritated.
It's also possible he had eaten or touched something before you that you're allergic to.
Maybe he was too rough and scratched you inside.
You might want to get checked out just to make sure you're good.
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Just came back to delete all my questions and I forgot to thank you for telling me to get checked out! It was really bad, like herpes bad! some time we did it before he gave it to me then the time i asked about it and you answered i was having an 'outbreak' in my vagina and that is hwy i was in SO MUCH PAIN! You were right. Huge mistake and I feel SO stupid!
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