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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media
I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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I personally.. dont want to go to University.. I know ''you wont get a good job'' , but I dont want to waste my time anymore in my heart I dont want to go... I want to go and start work right away.. I want to start working and I know its not the best thing but I want to work instead of studying.. is that normal?

Hey there :)
Of course that's totally normal! University isn't for everyone. Never be made feel like you won't be good enough if you don't go and get some high class degree.
Do what makes you happy in life.
If that means getting out there and starting work straight away well then do it! Don't worry what people will say or think. Society will always judge.
There is a need for regular 9-5 workers out there for the jobs somebody has to do and those people aren't given enough credit in life. Like store clerks managers waitresses etc.
You say it's not the best but why isn't it?
If its the best thing for you then surely that's good enough?
Don't listen to crap from people who make judgmental comments like oh he or she didn't go to college. It's just not for some people and that's okay.
I'm heading to college but that's because I have to to achieve the job that I really want to do in life so did my eldest sister. But my other sister never went to college and my mom and dad had no problem with that either as long as she was happy. She loves kids and started taking care of them for a living so it's fine not to want to go to university!
Do what makes you happy.
Hope this helps :)
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