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Hi, I'm Emily. Call me Emily or Em, I prefer either. I have been a featured columnist 2 times now. After disabling my account I had about 3 years ago, a lot has happened which made me want to come back. I feel as though helping people with their problems, helps me solve mine, even if that doesn't make a lot of sense to any of you. Don't hesitate to ask me anything, I will answer fairly quickly depending on the question. If you want a hard-thought out answer, which is what I usually give, it may take a little longer- it benefits everyone in the long run.
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ok i have a huge problem and its been on my mind for ages basically theres this boy i really like but he doesnt know me. he doesnt even know i exist. i see him sometimes but he hasnt ever seen me. ive had a crush on him for 5 and a half years now and i really want to meet him i hardly ever see him now only sometimes, and im always with parents when i do see him. i think im in love please help i need to find a way to speak to him, hes been on my mind a lot lately and i cant eat, think or study please help
thanks in advance (im 19)
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Hi there, thanks for the question!
You need to make a move. I'm telling you, guys love girls who make the first move. Even if your a little embarrassing and awkward about it at first, he will really appreciate that you made the move first. Because believe it or not, guys are scared to make the first move too. He doesn't know you like him. He can't read your mind. You need to just talk to him, and keep talking to him. Once you start talking to him, I think you will feel better.
*EDIT* Does any of your friends know him? Maybe you can go with that approach and do it through a friend. Hangout with both of them. Or maybe your friends with one of his friends? Take that approach.
Start off with a simple "Hi!" in the hallway, maybe he will think about you all class. :) If you have any classes with him, drop him a facebook message or text asking him what the homework was. And if your not, drop him one anyways :)
Hope I helped! Drop me another inbox to tell me how it goes! Good Luck!
(Rating: 5) thanks the problem his he doesnt know me and wen i see him my mums always there and so i cant say anything cos shes a strict no about talking to boys thats y i dnt know what to do