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So my boyfriend and I havent had sex for over 2 months. Its not that I dont want to have sex with him, its just that I dont want to just have sex anywhere. He is constantly reminding me that we havent had sex. Today we got into a huge arguement because we werent gonna be able to see eachother and he ended up telling me that he cant take it aymore and that if im not going to have sex with him, then he's going to get it from someone else. A few hours later he text me and told me that he was sorry, yet he doesnt want to talk about what was said. He called me after asking me if I like Guess purses and I said yes, but i don't want him to think that he can just buy me something and its going to change what was said. I really don't know what to do anymore and I need help on what this relationship will be like if things stay the way they are. Please comment. Thank You very much! (link)
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Not having sex just anywhere is a very respectable decision and behavior. Be proud of yourself for that! Among many things, respect is a key component to a healthy and successful relationship. If your boyfriend truly cared for you, he would have respect for you. Constantly reminding you that you haven't had sex? Not only is that disrespectful, but it is also rude and immature. You said the argument was "because we werent gonna be able to see eachother and he ended up telling me that he cant take it anymore". This sounds to me that when you guys were supposed to spend time together, he was yet again going to pressure you to have sex with him. I'm sure among your many reasons for not wanting to have sex just anywhere includes that sex to you is not just sex. Sex is more special. For you, it is probably making love everytime. It seems both of you view sex differently. Also, how can he expect you to build the want to have sex/make love to him when he treats you in this way? Threatening you to "get it from someone else" is one of the lowest things a guy can say to a woman. It is wrong, abusive and controlling! To top it all off, he wants to to accept his apology without a discussion? You are right- he cannot buy you and you shouldn't buy him! Honey, you deserve way better than this sorry excuse for a man! You deserve someone who accepts you for who you are and respects you for it. You need someone who feels the same way about you that you care about them. Your partner should never make you feel the way he does. Besides no respect, your boyfriend has now brought a trust issue into your relationship with his threat to sleep with other women. If you let things continue to stay the way they are, they will only get worse! It is time to let him go and save your heart for someone who deserves it! Good luck. I hope I helped. If you ever need anything else, I'm always here!
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Rating: 5
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Thank you so much I am really thinking about what you are saying to me.
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