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My boyfriend has been looking at p*rn a lot lately and it really bothers me. It bothers me because that is what he seems to prefer rather than us having sex together. He doesn't tell me he is looking at it, He hides it. Whenever I question or ask about it he lies...and it is really starting to tick me off. (link)
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I think you have a right to feel bothered by it. To me, looking is the first step of cheating. The people in the porn videos are just as real as the people walking down the street. I agree with you that it is wrong for him to continue this behavior when he knows you don't like it. If he really cares about you, he will respect your feelings. One can argue if you really care about him you'll let him watch something he enjoys watching. However, since you said "lately", this implies he has recently started this while dating you. Lying is not helping him either. Honesty and trust are key components to a healthy and successful relationship. You said he seems to prefer watching porn than having sex with you. This is not a good sign. This could mean he is doing more than just watching porn. Or it could mean he is losing interest in you. You need to confront him about your feelings and the fact that you know he has been lying. Tell him you would appreciate if he would be honest with you. Let him know you care about him and want to work things out. If he continues to lie or is not willing to compromise with you, than I say he is too immature for a relationship and that you deserve better. Good luck. Hope I helped. If you need anything else I'm here!
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