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about
I'm a mother of 2 boys who are 13 months apart. Talk about a handful. I'm a wife to the best husband I could have ever dreamed of.I'm one of the very blessed.
I have Bipolar 1 Disorder. I hate taking all these medications and always going to doctors appointments, but life is too short to let mental illness get the better of me.
Often times life is a challenge, and nobody knows that better than me. I wake up wondering if this is going to be a day my illness overpowers my meds, and either sends me flying like a bat out of hell, or leaves me laying on the couch like a wet dish rag.
Thank all that is good in the world that I have an excellent support system at home.
I'm one of the lucky ones.
I'm honest, and that can either be a perk or s flaw. Depends on how you choose to look at it.
I like to see it as a perk, because it's better to hear the truth than to be told candy coated bullshit.
advice
Ok, so my boyfriends dad offered to sell me a car, that was valued at 6000, for 1500. He said eh wanted to keep the insurance and title in his name until the car was paid off. I had no problem with that, but when i was on my way to take him somewhere, someone ran a red light and smashed the car. its gone, totalled. now he wants to pay his random bills with the settlement! My bf thinks im being selfish by thinking that he should keep the 1500 that he would have gotten from me out of the settlement, and give me the rest to get a new car. Am i being selfish, or is his dad being a real jerk? I really think that he only wanted to keep it in his name so that he could reap the benefits if I got in an accident. Help! dont want to see his face everyday while im so angry at the fact that he's gloating that hes making out on the deal!
Well, any smart man wouldn't want to keep his name on the car for "in the event of an accident."
See, that means if YOU were cause of an accident, HE is responsible, and therefore can be sued. Why? It's legally HIS car as long as his name is on the title.
This is what I think is RIGHT and FAIR:
From the settlement he should receive the amount owed on the car, the amount he paid for tags, the amount he paid for insurance. The rest of the settlement is YOURS. See, you could have been hurt, even KILLED in an accident. So what's left beyond what he is OWED, is yours.
If he don't like that, take him to small claims court. Sure, it will piss off your boyfriend, but if he is against doing right by you, then he doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend to begin with.
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(Rating: 5) thanks.