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You see that man in that picture? That is me. I'm metal as all holy heck and I will give you answers so metal, you'll grow a beard. Even if you're a teenage girl. So throw a question my way? "I like this guy and this guy, what do I do?" PICK THE ONE WHO LIKES METAL! "I've been feeling depressed lately, what should I do?" LISTEN TO SOME METAL! "I need help with my pre-calc homework." THE ANSWER IS METAL!
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For weeks I have been iffy about even writing this.
I am young 18 and just got married in August. I am pregnant that is not why we got married but I think we rushed into it. We were planning the wedding already had my wedding dress before i found out I was Pregnant.
Sometimes I find myself regretting getting marred My reasons. I wanted to work days and go to school nights. It would be tough but id be able to better myself for me and my family he through a fit and didnt support me at all. told me either work or go to school but advises me to work because we need the money. Being pregnant I have my mood swings like most if we have an argument its all my fault he will yell at me and blame me then make me feel guilty by saying oh its always all my fault i forgot your so perfect. sometimes he makes im crap. If i feel nauses or sick at night or anything and he wants sex he pouts and acts like he is mad by not saying a workd until he gets it then goes to sleep. he goes hunting, fishing, baseball teams and tournaments etc. anything he wants and i dont argue about it i just let him.
I have asked a million times to look harder for a job. he works 2 days aweek at a sale barn doing something he likes i work full time on my swallon feet 40+ hours a week and come home exhausted and tired. its like he dont care he doesnt want to even try to look he put an app. in at burgerking one app.. in 5 weeks? we live at my dads. which i dont feel is save but dont have a choice. hes lazy
and to top it off he always wants to spend money. i used to get food stamps which just stopped but hed want a gallon of tea every 2 days. go out and buy food he wants all the time because hes to lazy to cook one thing or wait for it to get done. as soon as he gets paid he goes and spends most of the money on garbage food and gets mad when i tell him i dont want it id rather eat food i cook at home.
I love my husband to death trust me and want to work things out but i dont know what to do i talk to him about it and itslike it is in one ear and out the other.
You've pretty much given the internet every reason why you SHOULDN'T love your husband, but you insist that you do. I know this kinda sucks to hear, but in reality he's a shitty piece of shit and you shouldn't have to worry about someone who sucks ass. Like he does. You're NEVER going to change who he is, and he sounds like a dildo. You're the one carrying a baby, you should get some relief from work and such.
And also! You find yourself regretting marrying him. Yes, your own reasons, that's fine. Regrets are always a bad thing to have. You shouldn't really regret anything you experience in life. It should be learning if it's bad.
What it really sounds like you need to do, and I know it sucks because you're pregnant with his kid, but divorce. I'm sorry to say it, but I think you only love him because you think you should. You need to love someone because you know you do. And I know we've never talked before. I don't know you. You don't know me. BUT, what you've written here, has given us the impression that you've made the wrong decision. Which is ok. You're 18 years old. That's fine. You're allowed to make mistakes. You can easily raise a child in this day and age without a biological father.
But seriously, look into your heart. Is HE worth the pain and agony that you're presenting to us on the internet. I'm sure what you go through is 10,000 times worse.
(Rating: 4) i no i can raise a child alone. i have a son whos bio dad doesnt want to be in his life and i no i love my husband or i wouldnt have married him and i dont believe in divorce unless its nessary or you are completely miserable.