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Hi, I'm Brittney, I'm a junior in college. don't ever feel hesitant to ask me a question, I will never judge you. Be completely honest and I will give you the best answer I can give, 100% of the time. A fun fact about me- I'm a triplet!

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Ok my story is a little bit long am sorry.
My boyfriend and i roke up in april 18 of 2009. then in may 03 he got with another girl. after that i made them brake up because i didnt liked the fact that he was with another girl. Ok he broke up with her in may29. Then in july 30th he got back with me.He was telling me all this stuff that he cantk with him because i really do love him. Then now in agust 1 he left to the dominican republic.Just 2 days ago i found out he has another live without me and sooo on.I whent bacgirl ovethere. at fisrt i thought his friend were just kidding but then i saw some pictures of him huggind with the girl and too closed together.there is another one with them in the pool together.right now he doesnt know that i know he has another girl. he is coming back on sunday. i dont want to call him and insult him because then he will end up staying ovethere,and i will be debastated.If you were in this position what will you do??

I understand how you feel, its definately not easy seeing someone like that. Im a little confused by your story, but Im guessing you both are still going out right? Well, thats what im going by :-).
I have always stood by my motto: trust until you cannot be trusted. Trust him until you catch him doing something wrong, which is when trust is taken away. If he wants to talk to this girl, thats okay because you cant control that, but I dont blame you for not wanting him around her much especially at a pool. Just talk to him about it calmly, tell him how you feel. communication is often the best way to solve things. :-) I will say though, when you two break up (broke up I should say), its not your place to manage who he goes out with. You dont own him, and he doesnt own you, and when you break up you both go separate ways. Just make sure to talk, and thanks for the inbox!!!!!

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