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Sunday is my best friend's daughter's birthday party. I'm her daughter's godmother, so she invited me & my boyfriend. I'd love to go, but the only problem is her boyfriend might be there. We used to be good friends with him, but there was a bunch of drama a while back so now me & my boyfriend really don't get along with him.
Do you think we should go to the party, or should we stay home to avoid any possible drama?
Dont let anyone ruin you fun! This party isn't for him, or about him, so don't worry about it at all. Be classy about it, if he looks at you smile, if he goes up to you say hi, casually say bye, and there will be a fun, drama free night for everyone. Just act as if he isnt there, and he will do the same :-). If he causes drama, then be the mature ones, your friend will be mad that she invited him, not you or your boyfriend.
Good luck!!!!
have fun at the party! :-)
p.s if you are having a group conversation, and he joins in, dont feel pressured to leave the circle.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much.