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Birthday Party Drama


Question Posted Friday August 14 2009, 4:21 pm

Sunday is my best friend's daughter's birthday party. I'm her daughter's godmother, so she invited me & my boyfriend. I'd love to go, but the only problem is her boyfriend might be there. We used to be good friends with him, but there was a bunch of drama a while back so now me & my boyfriend really don't get along with him.

Do you think we should go to the party, or should we stay home to avoid any possible drama?


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Additional info, added Friday August 14 2009, 4:23 pm:
To add a little more info to this: Her boyfriend & my boyfriend used to be best friends. He told my friend that the only way him & my boyfriend could be friends again is if he breaks up with me..

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sally91 answered Sunday August 16 2009, 6:01 pm:
Hey. go to the party. it seems important to you or you wouldnt be asking this question. just keep your distance from him and it should be ok.if he tries to start anything just walk away.

be the mature one and dont fight with him cos you'll only upset your daughters friend and spoil her party. xxsal

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Rock_Chick13 answered Friday August 14 2009, 6:57 pm:
Go to the party there is no need to miss events just cause you don't like someone. Just avoid him during the party and if he tries to start something all you have to do is leave your best friend will understand and she will be happy you made an attempt to be there.

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xosodapopx3 answered Friday August 14 2009, 5:07 pm:
Dont let anyone ruin you fun! This party isn't for him, or about him, so don't worry about it at all. Be classy about it, if he looks at you smile, if he goes up to you say hi, casually say bye, and there will be a fun, drama free night for everyone. Just act as if he isnt there, and he will do the same :-). If he causes drama, then be the mature ones, your friend will be mad that she invited him, not you or your boyfriend.
Good luck!!!!
have fun at the party! :-)
p.s if you are having a group conversation, and he joins in, dont feel pressured to leave the circle.

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