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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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Hi guys. 17 f
So im new at my job and so is this guy. We met first becuase we had a lunch break together, but then my time changed and now I work in the morning and he works at night. So I get to see him like 2 minutes before I leave when he comes in. And we can't stop and talk becuase he needs to go to his job. Well anyway I had an idea that I should ask him to borrow his phone just to make convo with him. He's really sweet, and nice. He's super nice to me and I don't know if he's into me. Becuase we barely see eachother and never have time to talk. If I tell him about my feelings maybe he will be creeped out becuase we've only spoken like 3 times and he like smiles at me wen he sees me. But that's all. I just saw him right now going into the job and I yelles his name and said hi. And he turned around and asked me if I was doing working and I said yes and he smiled and said bye. I really wish we could talk more but I can't tell him that. He might think im weird or something. Btw we work at CVS and he's 20 im 17 soon 18. Okay thanks soo much. Btw I like him a lot. But I think he's clueless.
hey there,
okay well i think your both attracted to each other anyway like you said hes super nice to you and sweet and he smiles alot at you so those are good signs =]
but yea your right not to tell him your feelings just yet judging by the way you don't really know him
so what I think you should do is,its totally putting yourself out there but its the only way to find out and itl be fun and flirty too and interesting to see
if you do ask him to borrow his fone so you can make a pretend call or something like that,then causually make convo and put your number into it and tell him to text you sometime,its leaving it up to him then so youl see if he texts,and if he does its a sure sign hes interested that way you can get to talking then ask him to hang out sometime or go for lunch or something one day your both off.
i know the idea of putting yourself out there like that is scary but at least youl know then and its better then sitting around wondering =)
it could turn out really well in fact i hope it does,he sounds great so grab the bull by the horn while you have a chance,even if things dont work out exactly how you want them look on the bright side you will have made a new friend at least?,
if you don't want to do the number thing ask him straight out to hang out something sugest somewhere to go =]
hope It works out,and that I helped
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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much jess, that was sweet of you to take the time to answer my Q. That was a good idea. Maybe I will put my # on his phone. Haah. Who knowS? Well thnxs again. Take care.
-anny.