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sorry if im getting on your nerves with all of these questions, i have ALOT on my mind. haha.
sooo, last night i was talking to my boyfriend and i was like, what would you do if i made an entire note on facebook dedicated to you? and he said, "I'd be happy" and i was like, "hmm." and he changed the subject or something. so, i made him the note, and 2 of my friends commented on it before he did. they both said it was cute and stuff, but one of my friends was like, THANKS FOR DELETING MY COMMENT [because uhm her comment was like, here's your comment asshole..like i told her to do it, which i didnt?] so then my boyfriend comments on it and he goes, "im flattered" IT WAS A 51 QUESTION NOTE AND I SAID SO MANY CUTE THINGS AND THATS ALL HE SAYS ?! WTF. HONESTLY, THAT IS RETARDED. like not even an, "I love you baby." just.. "im flattered" excuse me for being a little friggen pissed the hell off. and then he comments again talking to my friend saying what did she delete. and then my friend rambles on about me and then EMBARASSES ME. and he goes, "interesting" so i say, "im confused." and my boyfriend goes, "im not surprised" and then my friend ONCE AGAIN embarasses me and pretty much calls me stypid saying whats the use in trying to tell me what i did since i wouldnt understand what shes saying anyways. so then i said, "i give up. im just gonna pretend i know what you're talking about, and THANKS [BOYFRIENDS NAME] no more comments after that..
so my boyfriend and i were talking online and usually hes like, hey beautiful or hey gorgeous and how are you baby but today he was just liek hey and then how are yous [he knows pluralizing things makes me mad because thats the ONLY thing his ex did] and so whatever. we started talking and he was like, "miss you" and i was like, "same." and then i wouldnt vid chat with him so he got mad at me ? well kinda, and he called me mean, so i was like, im mean for making you an ENTIRE NOTE ? and all he said was, "it was cute" THATS IT ? NO THANKS ? NO I LOVE YOU ? should this be bothering me ? do i have a right to be pissed or upset ? we're so up and down. and my friend [the one who was embarassing me on the note] is flirting with him. she talks and flirts with him behind my back and doesnt tell me. randomly tells me she wants to hang with him and im like, uhm hes taken. says hes funny. and says she'll talk to him for me.. and im like.. no... like, whatthehell ?! HES MY BOYFRIEND.
ugh i need advice, im gonna like blow a fuse. aha. thanks sosososososososoooo much !!

haha your not its cool I know what its like =]
right your friend?..acting like a complete bitch. sorry to be so blunt but she is. shes honestly not acting like much of a friend if thats the type of stuff she does,its looking like shes trying to get with him,and only hanging with you to do that shes bad news i wouldnt waste my time and engery on her girls that annoy me so much and they arent worth it.


to answer your questions yes u have a right to be pissed and upset and it should bother you!
it would me!
now what im thinking is your boyfriend doesnt seem to be the lovey dovey affectionate type AT ALL. and you are. and your both clashing..like he doesnt think hes doing anything wrong but you do,and he cant see why your getting mad.
what he should have done is wrote you one back!
it looks like you need the type of guy who can be that way towards you and honestly from my perspective this guy is so not looking like it.
do you honestly think hes worth all this?do you think he can change?if this was me i would have given up on him now and stopped wasting my time showing all this love and care for him and getting like zilch back.you deserve better!
this guy is even coming between you and your friend for gods sakes. like obviously i dont know him,but from what your telling me i cant see whats so special about him?
but this is totally up to you its your choice if you think you can keep going and trying to get a response from him then do.
do what you feel is right basicly in your heart that never fails for me.
at this stage I think moving on as hard as it can be sometimes,seems like the best thing becuase its like dragging blood from a stone trying to get affection out of this guy by the looks of it.was it always that way?if it wasnt try finding out whats making him so distant.
sorry if this isnt what you wanted to hear but thats what I think!
I think your too good for him. give him an ultimatum see what happens.
say look if you dont start treating me like a gf and showing me some affection then thats it were through,judging by his reaction to it youl be able to tell if its worth hanging onto or not =]
hope i helped! && things work out
much

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(Rating: 5) Thank youuu, i ike that you'r real with me.. i mean. hes sweet sometimes, but recently.. idk whats up with him. i love him, i do. weve had alotta fights, and i dont want to start another one, nobodys perfect, but i think ill have to start a fight.
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