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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

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You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.

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hey you answered my question about how i've been hanging out with my ex ..okay so i'm going away on vacation to ocean city august 7th-11th (aug 11th 2008 was the day we started dating so it would be our 1 year, just throwing that out there) and i asked him if he wanted to hang out august 7th and he said yes and marked it on his calender, so hes free those days. i want to invite him to go with me but i don't really know how to bring it up...i also don't know if i should find out if he wants to start the relationship before i ask him to go on vacation or during vacation. and how should i go about asking him? i don't wanna come on too strong to be desperate you know? thanks lotss.

Tell him everything you just told me.

That's the best way to do it and to ask him to come. The more direct, but not like with force (if you understand), you are, the less desperate you'll come off.

Just ask him.

Thanks for inboxing me.

--Jack
(17/m)

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